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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 694159" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Kathy: </p><p></p><p>Everything you said is so true. He just got on FB messenger again and said he is getting a sponsor. Bravo! This is a good idea I said. Then he started: "when I was sober four months you didn't give me any credit". Bullshit! "Maybe if you give me incentive like six months clean you'll rent me a room or something. I didn't drink and drive."</p><p></p><p>He said he'll call me later. WTF. I told him to quit the blame game; we gave him everything WHEN he was sober. I haven't "talked" to him since Sunday. </p><p></p><p>When he calls I am telling him that his sobriety is for HIM not for us. He has to graduate from the program. He will be in sober living etc. as long as it takes. Until we see a CHANGE in him. I am going to not talk to him except once per week. I know this is not good for me. Let him talk to his dad. He doesn't pull that crap with him.</p><p></p><p>I hear what you are saying. I know that when HE is really ready to do this he won't be pulling this crap. Still no change in him. This sucks. Your daughter is 31. My son is almost 21. Not sure how much longer this can go on.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 694159, member: 15032"] Kathy: Everything you said is so true. He just got on FB messenger again and said he is getting a sponsor. Bravo! This is a good idea I said. Then he started: "when I was sober four months you didn't give me any credit". Bullshit! "Maybe if you give me incentive like six months clean you'll rent me a room or something. I didn't drink and drive." He said he'll call me later. WTF. I told him to quit the blame game; we gave him everything WHEN he was sober. I haven't "talked" to him since Sunday. When he calls I am telling him that his sobriety is for HIM not for us. He has to graduate from the program. He will be in sober living etc. as long as it takes. Until we see a CHANGE in him. I am going to not talk to him except once per week. I know this is not good for me. Let him talk to his dad. He doesn't pull that crap with him. I hear what you are saying. I know that when HE is really ready to do this he won't be pulling this crap. Still no change in him. This sucks. Your daughter is 31. My son is almost 21. Not sure how much longer this can go on. [/QUOTE]
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