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My son who we kicked out is PROUD of what hes doing...
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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 602544"><p>At the very least, you can stop second guessing yourself about asking him to leave. Clearly, he is out of touch with your family's morals and isn't feeling even a teensy bit humble or regretful.</p><p></p><p>My son cut me off from FB when he left - so I have no way of knowing if he posted anything. That said, his behavior was in the same spirit as your difficult child's and it both angered me and saddened me. I was so sure that he would be reexamining his life choices with in moments if not days of being asked to leave. Then I thought weeks, then I hoped months and tbh - even though he is back home - I can't be sure that he ever took ownership in his downfall.</p><p></p><p>On the brightside - this EGO-y, stubborn, hardheadedness often serves them well and keeps them from being victimized when they are on their own. Not much solace, I know...</p><p></p><p>I am sorry if I am being a downer - but I was so unprepared when my son didn't grasp the error of his ways within days, months, years... in fact; he was "living the life" for a long time, not an ounce of humility to be found. So hold tight, be strong and know that you are drawing a necessary line in the sand, especially with a younger sibling at home.</p><p></p><p>I know it's hard and I know it hurts. </p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/smile.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":smile:" title="smile :smile:" data-shortname=":smile:" />{{{hugs}}}</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 602544"] At the very least, you can stop second guessing yourself about asking him to leave. Clearly, he is out of touch with your family's morals and isn't feeling even a teensy bit humble or regretful. My son cut me off from FB when he left - so I have no way of knowing if he posted anything. That said, his behavior was in the same spirit as your difficult child's and it both angered me and saddened me. I was so sure that he would be reexamining his life choices with in moments if not days of being asked to leave. Then I thought weeks, then I hoped months and tbh - even though he is back home - I can't be sure that he ever took ownership in his downfall. On the brightside - this EGO-y, stubborn, hardheadedness often serves them well and keeps them from being victimized when they are on their own. Not much solace, I know... I am sorry if I am being a downer - but I was so unprepared when my son didn't grasp the error of his ways within days, months, years... in fact; he was "living the life" for a long time, not an ounce of humility to be found. So hold tight, be strong and know that you are drawing a necessary line in the sand, especially with a younger sibling at home. I know it's hard and I know it hurts. :smile:{{{hugs}}} [/QUOTE]
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