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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 619512" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>I am here as well, COM. I think when we don't know how to feel about something, it is OK to just sit with that. Sit with the unknowingness, hold it close, let it be. YOu can even name it--hello, unknown feeling, you are safe with me. We can sit together. I know it sounds odd, but sometimes if I do that for 20 or 30 minutes the aching feelng goes away. It sounds like you have some of the same practices I do, so maybe that will help a bit.</p><p>Meanwhile...he is safe and warm and can't really get in trouble. Nothing for you to do today, or tomorrow. NO need to take any kind of action, reach any conclusions, or even think about it.</p><p>I learned a lot from my SO--his mother was probably schizophrenic, with periods of lucency and good function, and periods where she would stip naked in front of the 7-11 and he would get called out of school to go retrieve her. He said it was easiest for him when she was in the hosptial, that he could relax and not "DO" for a while. Since my son's first hospitalizations were horrifying to me, that story came as a shock...now I totally get it. I could relax when he was in jail, too. I hope you can as well...I know you can.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p></p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 619512, member: 17269"] I am here as well, COM. I think when we don't know how to feel about something, it is OK to just sit with that. Sit with the unknowingness, hold it close, let it be. YOu can even name it--hello, unknown feeling, you are safe with me. We can sit together. I know it sounds odd, but sometimes if I do that for 20 or 30 minutes the aching feelng goes away. It sounds like you have some of the same practices I do, so maybe that will help a bit. Meanwhile...he is safe and warm and can't really get in trouble. Nothing for you to do today, or tomorrow. NO need to take any kind of action, reach any conclusions, or even think about it. I learned a lot from my SO--his mother was probably schizophrenic, with periods of lucency and good function, and periods where she would stip naked in front of the 7-11 and he would get called out of school to go retrieve her. He said it was easiest for him when she was in the hosptial, that he could relax and not "DO" for a while. Since my son's first hospitalizations were horrifying to me, that story came as a shock...now I totally get it. I could relax when he was in jail, too. I hope you can as well...I know you can. Hugs, Echo [/QUOTE]
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