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My stepdaughter wants to move in!
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 660390" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, you can love him, but he is destroying your health by his decisions.</p><p></p><p>Maybe you can get your own place until things settle down. A nice one bedroom apt. sounds good <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p></p><p>I will not give you strength to put up with abusive people living in your house. I won't enable that. I will give you strength to tell your husband, "I'm done with this. No. She can not move in. It's my house too."</p><p></p><p>I am cheering for you to have the right kind of strength and it is NOT the right kind of strength to let your health deteriorate while one abusive person after another takes advantage of you and your husband. </p><p></p><p>Cheering for you to have the right kind of strength. What is so scary about "no?" Abusive people will be angry at you? Are they worth it? Who cares? You can go silent on them and not listen to their abuse. That is also a choice you have. Block their numbers and have peace. Tell Dad, who was never there, to stay at a hotel. That is a bunch of crapola, in my opinion. Or maybe I should call him sperm donor <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /> </p><p></p><p>Very gently I hope you do start to speak up for yourself. We can't live forever. At your age you know that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 660390, member: 1550"] Well, you can love him, but he is destroying your health by his decisions. Maybe you can get your own place until things settle down. A nice one bedroom apt. sounds good :) I will not give you strength to put up with abusive people living in your house. I won't enable that. I will give you strength to tell your husband, "I'm done with this. No. She can not move in. It's my house too." I am cheering for you to have the right kind of strength and it is NOT the right kind of strength to let your health deteriorate while one abusive person after another takes advantage of you and your husband. Cheering for you to have the right kind of strength. What is so scary about "no?" Abusive people will be angry at you? Are they worth it? Who cares? You can go silent on them and not listen to their abuse. That is also a choice you have. Block their numbers and have peace. Tell Dad, who was never there, to stay at a hotel. That is a bunch of crapola, in my opinion. Or maybe I should call him sperm donor ;) Very gently I hope you do start to speak up for yourself. We can't live forever. At your age you know that. [/QUOTE]
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