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My time to go letter...what do you think?
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<blockquote data-quote="elizabrary" data-source="post: 413537" data-attributes="member: 11235"><p>Personally I would have specific out date- you must be out of the house by May 1st, or whatever, and I wouldn't pay for a storage unit. I told Kat she had until a specific date to get her stuff and then I would sell or donate all of it. She got it prior to the date. With Kat I have to be very specific with no loopholes and I can't agree to pay for anything or she keeps upping the ante- if I paid for 1 month in a motel then I need to pay for the next month because xyz disaster occurred, which is why she can't pay for the next month. I literally have to cut her off from all financial support for her to do what she needs to do. And guess what? She ALWAYS figures it out and gets what she needs, but when I am doing it she has no motivation to do it for herself. And I went through with her both while she was pregnant and since she's had the baby.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="elizabrary, post: 413537, member: 11235"] Personally I would have specific out date- you must be out of the house by May 1st, or whatever, and I wouldn't pay for a storage unit. I told Kat she had until a specific date to get her stuff and then I would sell or donate all of it. She got it prior to the date. With Kat I have to be very specific with no loopholes and I can't agree to pay for anything or she keeps upping the ante- if I paid for 1 month in a motel then I need to pay for the next month because xyz disaster occurred, which is why she can't pay for the next month. I literally have to cut her off from all financial support for her to do what she needs to do. And guess what? She ALWAYS figures it out and gets what she needs, but when I am doing it she has no motivation to do it for herself. And I went through with her both while she was pregnant and since she's had the baby. [/QUOTE]
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