Ok, difficult child has been on AIM for a couple years. He is only 12, but easy child was on, and difficult child learned how. We didn't allow him much time on the computer back then. And we went without a computer for quite a while. Anyway, back then I was able to get into the history of AIM and see whole conversations, dates, times. I cannot find that now. Is it a setting that he has now gotten smart to? Myspace, He sent me his URL, but he has it marked as private, so he said I cannot look at anything or respond to him unless I have a myspace and he invites me. I really do not know anything about this. He had a Myspace two years ago, and that one was not marked private. He was 10 and said he drinks and does drugs and other bad things. He ofcourse didn't list his age..but listed his school. lol. That one and several he tried to set up since keep getting deleted. He says Myspace deletes them because he is not old enough..how do they know? Anyway, is there a way to get on to his Myspace if he has it marked private?