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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 411301" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>klmno, I would have agreed with you last year. At this point we realize she can never come back home. We realize she is mentally ill and yesterday she was in a mania. husband needed to de-escalate the situation and I agreed. As mad and hurt as I was and wanting to dig my heals in, I realized he was wise to wait until today and talk to her when he was rational. If he had talked to her last night I am afraid someone would have been dead. He was livid and saying some things that would never be able to be taken back. He was, of course, venting. But he is better able to put his emotions in check and wait until he is rational before going. forward. At this point we needed to calm her down and hopefully save our lives and keep our distance from her.</p><p></p><p>We are actually extracating ourselves from her, including financially. Once we figure out what to do with the car we can remove her from our auto insurance, health insurance, etc. We are in the process of cutting her off from all our support, which includes phone,and that's why she went crazy. But we have to do it in a way that will keep us safe.</p><p></p><p>If we were still trying to fix her it would be different. Right now i don't want to be one of those tragic stories on 20/20.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 411301, member: 59"] klmno, I would have agreed with you last year. At this point we realize she can never come back home. We realize she is mentally ill and yesterday she was in a mania. husband needed to de-escalate the situation and I agreed. As mad and hurt as I was and wanting to dig my heals in, I realized he was wise to wait until today and talk to her when he was rational. If he had talked to her last night I am afraid someone would have been dead. He was livid and saying some things that would never be able to be taken back. He was, of course, venting. But he is better able to put his emotions in check and wait until he is rational before going. forward. At this point we needed to calm her down and hopefully save our lives and keep our distance from her. We are actually extracating ourselves from her, including financially. Once we figure out what to do with the car we can remove her from our auto insurance, health insurance, etc. We are in the process of cutting her off from all our support, which includes phone,and that's why she went crazy. But we have to do it in a way that will keep us safe. If we were still trying to fix her it would be different. Right now i don't want to be one of those tragic stories on 20/20. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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