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Narcicistic father. Is he too old for me to take a stand?
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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 546191"><p>Absolutely take a stand. My mother is almost that bad and getting worse. She has never approved of ME. I have never done anything right and still don't. My house is never clean enough. My kids nor I are not good enough. I don't go visit her every day like she did with her 80+ year old mother (my mom is 68). She's glad she never treated her mother the way Ive treated her. It doesn't matter that I am the only one that has ALWAYS dropped everything when she needed something and taken her everywhere. When she's had back or leg surgery, I'm the one that took care of her. But, I have finally taken a stand with her (she's written me out of her will, too because of it). If she makes a negative comment about me or my kids, I hang up or leave without another word. I have VERY limited contact with her now and went for 4 months without any contact at all because she had crossed the line and tried to justify it.</p><p></p><p>You don't deserve to be treated the way he treats you. The first time you decide to take a stand, tell him you will NOT put up with this emotional and verbal abuse any more and that from now on you will simply hang up. Then all subsequent phone calls should be ended abruptly without further explanation. Just hang up on him.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry he's such a horse's patootie. No one deserves to be treated this way and it's never to late to stand up to him. I'm very proud of you for doing it at all. Many people don't.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 546191"] Absolutely take a stand. My mother is almost that bad and getting worse. She has never approved of ME. I have never done anything right and still don't. My house is never clean enough. My kids nor I are not good enough. I don't go visit her every day like she did with her 80+ year old mother (my mom is 68). She's glad she never treated her mother the way Ive treated her. It doesn't matter that I am the only one that has ALWAYS dropped everything when she needed something and taken her everywhere. When she's had back or leg surgery, I'm the one that took care of her. But, I have finally taken a stand with her (she's written me out of her will, too because of it). If she makes a negative comment about me or my kids, I hang up or leave without another word. I have VERY limited contact with her now and went for 4 months without any contact at all because she had crossed the line and tried to justify it. You don't deserve to be treated the way he treats you. The first time you decide to take a stand, tell him you will NOT put up with this emotional and verbal abuse any more and that from now on you will simply hang up. Then all subsequent phone calls should be ended abruptly without further explanation. Just hang up on him. I am sorry he's such a horse's patootie. No one deserves to be treated this way and it's never to late to stand up to him. I'm very proud of you for doing it at all. Many people don't. [/QUOTE]
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