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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 748767" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>These two ideas aboe are great.</p><p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">These two ideas, with my son, would blow up in my face.</span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p><p>In my experience my son would experience these as a form of abandonment. You see. He wants to separate from me, but that I not separate from him. He wants to believe that there is always safe harbor here, realistic or not. When I have said even this: <em>You can always decide to get Section 8 housing</em>. Instead of launching he feels this as rejecting.</p><p></p><p>What you don't want (should you decide to go through with the meeting), is that there is drama. You want easy-going. You want upbeat. You want courtesy. Actually. You want to pretend everything is okay so that it does not blow up in your face.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 748767, member: 18958"] These two ideas aboe are great. [LEFT][COLOR=rgb(20, 20, 20)] These two ideas, with my son, would blow up in my face. [/COLOR][/LEFT] In my experience my son would experience these as a form of abandonment. You see. He wants to separate from me, but that I not separate from him. He wants to believe that there is always safe harbor here, realistic or not. When I have said even this: [I]You can always decide to get Section 8 housing[/I]. Instead of launching he feels this as rejecting. What you don't want (should you decide to go through with the meeting), is that there is drama. You want easy-going. You want upbeat. You want courtesy. Actually. You want to pretend everything is okay so that it does not blow up in your face. [/QUOTE]
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