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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 551479"><p>Wow I am surprised they are asking him for the $800 bond... that doesnt sound right to me. Does he have a PO? Has he talked to her and shown her he has had treatment, obeyed all the rules at the sober house and gotten a job? All of that is huge! If he hasnt talked to his PO he should call them immediately and see if he has any options. I know our court here will allow community service as an alternative to paying money for court costs.</p><p></p><p>I don't think you should offer to loan him the money if he hasn't asked you for it. Let him figure out what to do and to come up with a solution. If he wants your help he should ask for it... rather than you giving it to him without him asking for it. That goes back to our old mommy need to take care of them and solve their problems. (I speak from much experience doing just that).</p><p></p><p>TL</p><p>'</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 551479"] Wow I am surprised they are asking him for the $800 bond... that doesnt sound right to me. Does he have a PO? Has he talked to her and shown her he has had treatment, obeyed all the rules at the sober house and gotten a job? All of that is huge! If he hasnt talked to his PO he should call them immediately and see if he has any options. I know our court here will allow community service as an alternative to paying money for court costs. I don't think you should offer to loan him the money if he hasn't asked you for it. Let him figure out what to do and to come up with a solution. If he wants your help he should ask for it... rather than you giving it to him without him asking for it. That goes back to our old mommy need to take care of them and solve their problems. (I speak from much experience doing just that). TL ' [/QUOTE]
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