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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 664287" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Worried, you are doing fine. Great exactly. You are being very powerful, even though it may not feel such.</p><p></p><p>You are beginning the process of finding your power with your mother. And doing what you need to do to assert it.</p><p></p><p>Does your mother have to go to the appointments? Is she paying?</p><p></p><p>You know that your son is triangulating with your mother and you. Cutting you out, because she is the easier one to deal with. All of our kids do it, or most of them. You will get a handle on it but your Mom will not like losing her power. You will probably need your own support system.</p><p></p><p>Have you thought about Al Anon? On your own.</p><p></p><p>You are very brave. I admire your strength. You are doing this.</p><p></p><p>There seems a lot of love here, with you guys. And commitment. You will work it out.</p><p></p><p>Stay with us. I hope you do. It really helps. This is a great group of people, of parents.</p><p></p><p>Take care. Keep posting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 664287, member: 18958"] Worried, you are doing fine. Great exactly. You are being very powerful, even though it may not feel such. You are beginning the process of finding your power with your mother. And doing what you need to do to assert it. Does your mother have to go to the appointments? Is she paying? You know that your son is triangulating with your mother and you. Cutting you out, because she is the easier one to deal with. All of our kids do it, or most of them. You will get a handle on it but your Mom will not like losing her power. You will probably need your own support system. Have you thought about Al Anon? On your own. You are very brave. I admire your strength. You are doing this. There seems a lot of love here, with you guys. And commitment. You will work it out. Stay with us. I hope you do. It really helps. This is a great group of people, of parents. Take care. Keep posting. [/QUOTE]
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