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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 173485" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: navy">Okay, so who's the difficult child now? <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/redface.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":redface:" title="redface :redface:" data-shortname=":redface:" /></span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: navy">I spoke with my brother in law/boss and told him that I've taken these 24 hours to digest things and now I needed to talk. So, I laid it all out on the table: how I was feeling blindsided and how I felt as if there was more to this change due to the expediancy in which he's moving forward with his plan. I asked him if he felt he couldn't trust me for some reason, if I'd done something wrong, whatever.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: navy">He was genuinely surprised that I thought he didn't trust me. He profusely declared implicit trust in me and confidence in my ability to perform the job. He told me that the accounts had been bugging him for over a year to get in a bookkeeper because I wear too many hats and he felt that this would truly relieve some of the pressure I feel to juggle so much. He said the accountants also told him that even though we're so small a company, it's odd to NOT have a bookkeeper specifically to handle the payables and payroll. I would still be doing receivables and invoicing. And I'd still be doing my human resource work, etc. All good things. And the boss also said that he is going to monitor this change and if it's not working, then we will try to go back to the way it was [if I was open to it] and move some of my other responsibilities to someone else. He said that he's trying to create two jobs from my one, since he feels it's at least a two person job. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: navy">So, I feel so relieved now...I'm so glad I went in and spoke with him. And tonight I am going to start reading The Four Agreements again because it talks all about how things that happen around us usually have nothing to do with us at all. I personalize things too much. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: navy">Thanks for all the advice and good thoughts and hugs~</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 173485, member: 2211"] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=navy]Okay, so who's the difficult child now? :blushing:[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=navy]I spoke with my brother in law/boss and told him that I've taken these 24 hours to digest things and now I needed to talk. So, I laid it all out on the table: how I was feeling blindsided and how I felt as if there was more to this change due to the expediancy in which he's moving forward with his plan. I asked him if he felt he couldn't trust me for some reason, if I'd done something wrong, whatever.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=navy]He was genuinely surprised that I thought he didn't trust me. He profusely declared implicit trust in me and confidence in my ability to perform the job. He told me that the accounts had been bugging him for over a year to get in a bookkeeper because I wear too many hats and he felt that this would truly relieve some of the pressure I feel to juggle so much. He said the accountants also told him that even though we're so small a company, it's odd to NOT have a bookkeeper specifically to handle the payables and payroll. I would still be doing receivables and invoicing. And I'd still be doing my human resource work, etc. All good things. And the boss also said that he is going to monitor this change and if it's not working, then we will try to go back to the way it was [if I was open to it] and move some of my other responsibilities to someone else. He said that he's trying to create two jobs from my one, since he feels it's at least a two person job. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=navy]So, I feel so relieved now...I'm so glad I went in and spoke with him. And tonight I am going to start reading The Four Agreements again because it talks all about how things that happen around us usually have nothing to do with us at all. I personalize things too much. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=navy]Thanks for all the advice and good thoughts and hugs~[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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