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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 632132" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>Thank you all. It <em>is</em> SO hard. I want the absolute best for him. She came home this morning after I wrote this post and I talked to her some. I told her it is not that I think she is a bad mom, I just want her to be a <em>better</em> mom than I was. I explained where I am coming from. Anyhow, I told her I am going to try REAL hard to sit on my lips, but I really do not feel that the baby should spend the night anywhere but home. I told her if she feels she cannot do that here, then she should think about moving out. He does need stability.</p><p> </p><p>I know she cannot afford to go anywhere. She is not working and cannot support Connor on her own. But, I do think it would be best as much as I would miss that baby like crazy!!!!! I would take him every other weekend for the full weekend, though. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>You are all right. I need to let her be the mother as much as it pains me to do so...lol. My type A personality always comes out and whoo. I think I may be putting more stress on myself by always being concerned with what she is doing. Why am I doing that to myself?? </p><p> </p><p>And Connor is almost a year old!! He will be a year on Spetember 4th. Goodness, I can't believe it has been that long already...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 632132, member: 15796"] Thank you all. It [I]is[/I] SO hard. I want the absolute best for him. She came home this morning after I wrote this post and I talked to her some. I told her it is not that I think she is a bad mom, I just want her to be a [I]better[/I] mom than I was. I explained where I am coming from. Anyhow, I told her I am going to try REAL hard to sit on my lips, but I really do not feel that the baby should spend the night anywhere but home. I told her if she feels she cannot do that here, then she should think about moving out. He does need stability. I know she cannot afford to go anywhere. She is not working and cannot support Connor on her own. But, I do think it would be best as much as I would miss that baby like crazy!!!!! I would take him every other weekend for the full weekend, though. :) You are all right. I need to let her be the mother as much as it pains me to do so...lol. My type A personality always comes out and whoo. I think I may be putting more stress on myself by always being concerned with what she is doing. Why am I doing that to myself?? And Connor is almost a year old!! He will be a year on Spetember 4th. Goodness, I can't believe it has been that long already... [/QUOTE]
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