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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 108828" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Ahhhhhhhhhh </p><p></p><p>The case of MOMMY WE WANT A PUPPY!!!!!!!! I get it.</p><p></p><p>Paris, plans are plans - if your Mom and brother and sister in law agreed to have plans made and they got busy in between sending difficult child there and the plans - I think that's awful. I understand things happen, plans change, but I think you both (you and son) thought he would be going to Grandmas and doing, seeing etc.. and now nothing. Too bad really - sounds like they're missing out doing things with a super kid. </p><p></p><p>And I kinda get the sense that YOU "need" the break. VERY understandable. If he's that bored and already asking you to bring him home - I'd talk to my Mom and brother in law/sis and ask them what happened - do they not have time to spend with him like they originally planned? Even at 18 - it's hard to entertain yourself. And like MB said - sleeping in when there are no plans - largely difficult child. </p><p></p><p>I just don't get the big picture here - they wanted him to come - they had things planned for him to do -their plans fell through- he is pretty much on his own, so he sleeps - and now THAT isn't okay? Fill me in - I'm really trying to come up with something other than saying he needs to come home - but do know this. MY difficult child wants to be ANYWHERE but HERE in that time and space. So okay I make plans - he goes and THAT isn't where he wants to be either - so I would bring him back, and then okay that was great and in 2 days he wanted to be ANYWHERE BUT HERE AGAIN. </p><p></p><p>(see a mad pattern in that?) lol </p><p></p><p>Fill me in when you can. Maybe some schedule tweaking on everyones part is needed to pitch in like a family and help. ???</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 108828, member: 4964"] Ahhhhhhhhhh The case of MOMMY WE WANT A PUPPY!!!!!!!! I get it. Paris, plans are plans - if your Mom and brother and sister in law agreed to have plans made and they got busy in between sending difficult child there and the plans - I think that's awful. I understand things happen, plans change, but I think you both (you and son) thought he would be going to Grandmas and doing, seeing etc.. and now nothing. Too bad really - sounds like they're missing out doing things with a super kid. And I kinda get the sense that YOU "need" the break. VERY understandable. If he's that bored and already asking you to bring him home - I'd talk to my Mom and brother in law/sis and ask them what happened - do they not have time to spend with him like they originally planned? Even at 18 - it's hard to entertain yourself. And like MB said - sleeping in when there are no plans - largely difficult child. I just don't get the big picture here - they wanted him to come - they had things planned for him to do -their plans fell through- he is pretty much on his own, so he sleeps - and now THAT isn't okay? Fill me in - I'm really trying to come up with something other than saying he needs to come home - but do know this. MY difficult child wants to be ANYWHERE but HERE in that time and space. So okay I make plans - he goes and THAT isn't where he wants to be either - so I would bring him back, and then okay that was great and in 2 days he wanted to be ANYWHERE BUT HERE AGAIN. (see a mad pattern in that?) lol Fill me in when you can. Maybe some schedule tweaking on everyones part is needed to pitch in like a family and help. ??? Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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