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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 497891" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm a grandma too...probably older than you...lol. But I still have two kids at home and we had some bad experiences with an older adopted child.</p><p></p><p>I am wondering if the older half-brother who is now out of the house sexually abused your grandson. It's kind of unusual for a kid to fight so hard NOT to go with mother and sexually abused kids don't talk about why. They are too afraid. </p><p></p><p>Sounds like a terrible environment. If this were me, I would call social services and ask them not to give out my name. The family may know it's you, but at least CPS won't confirm it. Maybe half he neighborhood knows they are pretty crazy and could be the one who called in. They will at least check in there, not sure there is much you can do besides that. But maybe it will give them a scare and make them shape up.</p><p></p><p>I really hope CPS steps up to the plate and I hope you can maybe eventually get custody of this sweet little boy. Nothing good is going on in his mamas house. Can you ask his mother to live with you? Maybe she'd be happy to do it and get away. That way you can get both of them out of there. I know that's a lot to ask of you though, but at least when she went on her school break partying, you'd have your grandson safe and sound with you.</p><p></p><p>Good luck to you and the little one and keep us posted.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 497891, member: 1550"] I'm a grandma too...probably older than you...lol. But I still have two kids at home and we had some bad experiences with an older adopted child. I am wondering if the older half-brother who is now out of the house sexually abused your grandson. It's kind of unusual for a kid to fight so hard NOT to go with mother and sexually abused kids don't talk about why. They are too afraid. Sounds like a terrible environment. If this were me, I would call social services and ask them not to give out my name. The family may know it's you, but at least CPS won't confirm it. Maybe half he neighborhood knows they are pretty crazy and could be the one who called in. They will at least check in there, not sure there is much you can do besides that. But maybe it will give them a scare and make them shape up. I really hope CPS steps up to the plate and I hope you can maybe eventually get custody of this sweet little boy. Nothing good is going on in his mamas house. Can you ask his mother to live with you? Maybe she'd be happy to do it and get away. That way you can get both of them out of there. I know that's a lot to ask of you though, but at least when she went on her school break partying, you'd have your grandson safe and sound with you. Good luck to you and the little one and keep us posted. [/QUOTE]
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