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<blockquote data-quote="Aidensgrandma" data-source="post: 498352" data-attributes="member: 13585"><p>Hi everyone, and thanks for your replies.</p><p> Not to worry, I have spoken with the grandson's mom about every single one of these issues, except the things her mother has said to me. That would just be hurtful.</p><p>Aiden was here all day today, but only cause we wanted him, and mom said she had some stuff to do...so, I offered.</p><p> I did speak to her about a toddler needing 10 to 12 hours of UNINTERRUPTED sleep at night. In fact, I mentioned it in front of HER mother, her mother said.."well, I doubt that's going to happen"</p><p> I spoke quite frankly with Aidens mom, and asked her, if, when I bring Aiden home, if she takes him back out, and if her mother would watch him, if she decides to go out. She said, no, he goes everywhere with me, she doesn't want to watch him. I implored her to let him get sleep. But then again, her mother and her, do not have a good relationship as far as I can see. Her mother's attitude is, well she decided to have the child, he's hers to take care of and be responsible for. I feel, since she is attending college, and working, she can use a little help. And hopefully, when she graduates, they'll be a little more consistency, and stabilty there.</p><p>So...I take it day by day, and actually, this is out of my control, anyway.....</p><p>I can pray, and be available, but on the other hand, I have a husband with multiple health issues...Epilepsy, recent back surgery, high B.P. etc....so, my attention is somewhat divided.</p><p></p><p>I will not call C.P.S. My son did that a couple times, most likely out of spite, and they found no problems.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Aidensgrandma, post: 498352, member: 13585"] Hi everyone, and thanks for your replies. Not to worry, I have spoken with the grandson's mom about every single one of these issues, except the things her mother has said to me. That would just be hurtful. Aiden was here all day today, but only cause we wanted him, and mom said she had some stuff to do...so, I offered. I did speak to her about a toddler needing 10 to 12 hours of UNINTERRUPTED sleep at night. In fact, I mentioned it in front of HER mother, her mother said.."well, I doubt that's going to happen" I spoke quite frankly with Aidens mom, and asked her, if, when I bring Aiden home, if she takes him back out, and if her mother would watch him, if she decides to go out. She said, no, he goes everywhere with me, she doesn't want to watch him. I implored her to let him get sleep. But then again, her mother and her, do not have a good relationship as far as I can see. Her mother's attitude is, well she decided to have the child, he's hers to take care of and be responsible for. I feel, since she is attending college, and working, she can use a little help. And hopefully, when she graduates, they'll be a little more consistency, and stabilty there. So...I take it day by day, and actually, this is out of my control, anyway..... I can pray, and be available, but on the other hand, I have a husband with multiple health issues...Epilepsy, recent back surgery, high B.P. etc....so, my attention is somewhat divided. I will not call C.P.S. My son did that a couple times, most likely out of spite, and they found no problems. [/QUOTE]
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