What do I do when my daughter and her husband argue in front of me? I have just sat there or usually walked away and given them space. However, he intimidates her. He told her she was acting like a stubborn child. He also said she was delusional about wanting another color of furniture! He attacks her verbally, I believe and sometimes it is very hard for me to just sit there. I want her to know I am on her side no matter what but I dont want to interfere in any way but I hate it when he says things like that to her that are not true. Also we all went to church today and it was a very good one about living life to the fullest and changing our ways and loving people for who they are, etc. My daughter said to him today - I guess church doesnt mean anything to you does it? and he said - dont start acting prissy with me - ! I just wanted to say something but didnt.