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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 710082" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>My opinion? She wants something and doesnt seem serious about changing. It is notable that she didnt offer to help you as you recover. Will she help you?</p><p></p><p>Maybe fifteen years of reading stories on this forum has made me cynical of those who mouth words yet dont act. Actions speak louder than words. I fear for you if you let her come home. From my gut. To me it sounds like she wants free housing and doesnt seem serious about rehab.</p><p></p><p>Think it over in detail. We all want our difficult adult kids to change, bit it doesnt happen without help and can take years.</p><p></p><p>I hope yoir decision works out for you. Be sure to make your decision by putting your needs first. You matter immensely. You need to heal without stress.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 710082, member: 1550"] My opinion? She wants something and doesnt seem serious about changing. It is notable that she didnt offer to help you as you recover. Will she help you? Maybe fifteen years of reading stories on this forum has made me cynical of those who mouth words yet dont act. Actions speak louder than words. I fear for you if you let her come home. From my gut. To me it sounds like she wants free housing and doesnt seem serious about rehab. Think it over in detail. We all want our difficult adult kids to change, bit it doesnt happen without help and can take years. I hope yoir decision works out for you. Be sure to make your decision by putting your needs first. You matter immensely. You need to heal without stress. [/QUOTE]
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