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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 88252" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I do not mean anything judgemental or offensive by the following, please use what you can and ignore the rest!</p><p></p><p>Do you or your husband spank him? Use statements like: If you keep it up I will give you something to cry about?</p><p></p><p>It almost sounds like he is using what he hears and sees as his way to behave. </p><p></p><p>THAT IS NOT A JUDGEMENT OF WHAT YOU DO WITH HIM. I want you to explore the possibility that maybe he needs differnt parenting methods because he doesnot see the differnce between adult and child, authority figures and others. Is he maybe thinking this is OK because he sees other people not getting in trouble for doing it?</p><p></p><p>I would limit his TV watching to strictly non-violent videos. NO reg tv unless you have already seen the program AND the commercials. Even some Disney titles may need to be pulled.</p><p></p><p>Then look at your parenting. Are you spanking? Is he seeing that you hit him, so why can't he hit ohters? Many of us have kids who think this way. That is why we have learned to parent our children differently.</p><p></p><p>Try The Explosive Child. REad it and see what you think.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 88252, member: 1233"] I do not mean anything judgemental or offensive by the following, please use what you can and ignore the rest! Do you or your husband spank him? Use statements like: If you keep it up I will give you something to cry about? It almost sounds like he is using what he hears and sees as his way to behave. THAT IS NOT A JUDGEMENT OF WHAT YOU DO WITH HIM. I want you to explore the possibility that maybe he needs differnt parenting methods because he doesnot see the differnce between adult and child, authority figures and others. Is he maybe thinking this is OK because he sees other people not getting in trouble for doing it? I would limit his TV watching to strictly non-violent videos. NO reg tv unless you have already seen the program AND the commercials. Even some Disney titles may need to be pulled. Then look at your parenting. Are you spanking? Is he seeing that you hit him, so why can't he hit ohters? Many of us have kids who think this way. That is why we have learned to parent our children differently. Try The Explosive Child. REad it and see what you think. Hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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