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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 177427" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Fran, YOU AND ME BOTH.</p><p> </p><p>However, anytime that has been attempted, ex blows her top and starts screaming, husband ignores it, which ticks ex off more, and then, inevitably, she drags easy child into it saying if husband won't do this or that, he won't get to see easy child. She's kept her from him for up to 9 months at a time (it takes that long to get thru the court system to resolve it...). Unfortunately for me, I have some sort of rapport with this woman and can talk to her. Discovered this at one of the court sessions - the lawyers and mediators could not talk to her, and for some unknown reason, I tried. We talked for 2 hours. I was able to get her to agree to the visitation schedule that time. I've tried to make husband talk to her since then, but its still the same thing, even years later. I dont particularly like her, but I can talk to her. I don't know why. So for the sake of peace for easy child (and easy child only), I do the talking.</p><p> </p><p>If I had my way, I'd lock her and husband in a room and take easy child to the carribean while they figure out how to communicate. But the devil will ice skate first, I do beleive.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 177427, member: 1848"] Fran, YOU AND ME BOTH. However, anytime that has been attempted, ex blows her top and starts screaming, husband ignores it, which ticks ex off more, and then, inevitably, she drags easy child into it saying if husband won't do this or that, he won't get to see easy child. She's kept her from him for up to 9 months at a time (it takes that long to get thru the court system to resolve it...). Unfortunately for me, I have some sort of rapport with this woman and can talk to her. Discovered this at one of the court sessions - the lawyers and mediators could not talk to her, and for some unknown reason, I tried. We talked for 2 hours. I was able to get her to agree to the visitation schedule that time. I've tried to make husband talk to her since then, but its still the same thing, even years later. I dont particularly like her, but I can talk to her. I don't know why. So for the sake of peace for easy child (and easy child only), I do the talking. If I had my way, I'd lock her and husband in a room and take easy child to the carribean while they figure out how to communicate. But the devil will ice skate first, I do beleive. [/QUOTE]
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