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<blockquote data-quote="Snow White" data-source="post: 701872" data-attributes="member: 355"><p>Yes, I find it helpful to re-read posts (and also keep up with others who are posting). It reinforces everything.</p><p></p><p>Late last night I found out more stuff that just breaks my heart. I belong to a FB travel group (this group was of great assistance when daughter was robbed last year in Asia and has also had members step up for this 'surgical intervention') and I am a moderator of one of the sub-groups. It turns out that someone reported the GoFundMe accounts (she has 2 - one she set up for her "awareness cycling trip" and the other was set up by a FB friend for her medical costs) as fraudulent. GoFundMe investigated and found that they are legit (technically they're immoral but so are many others). I guess daughter feels that the travel site administrator and myself are the ones who made the fraud claims. We did not. </p><p></p><p>In the meantime, the other moderators in the sub-group have just figured out that I am "that Mom" and have sent me the posts, messages and video link that my daughter has gone public with. She posted a 40 minute video from her hospital bed about her "life" and how I beat her when she was a child and did terrible things while working in an operating room. She was never physically or emotionally abused...and I worked in a hospital but never in the OR. My daughter has given everyone my name and personal contact info (email, phone #'s, etc.). She stated in the video that she was going to use the video for legal purposes (most likely against me) but then admitted she was under the influence of morphine! I was not actually able to view the video personally - and for that I am grateful. It feels like such a betrayal. </p><p></p><p>On a funny note - I always thought her "book" was going to come out before the "movie". Guess I was wrong.</p><p></p><p>One of the other travel moderators who daughter messaged felt so badly for her that they offered to fly there immediately from Australia to be by her bedside. Only days later, daughter blocked this woman who was willing to fly 5 hours and drive 5 more hours to help her. I guess daughter's paranoia that she will be "outed" is making her have to limit the circle of people she is feeding her info to. The moderator felt so devastated. We talked on the phone until the wee hours of this morning and she made me feel so much better and at the same time, she learned so much. </p><p></p><p>And at 5:30 am, the phone calls from Thailand started. I did not answer the phone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Snow White, post: 701872, member: 355"] Yes, I find it helpful to re-read posts (and also keep up with others who are posting). It reinforces everything. Late last night I found out more stuff that just breaks my heart. I belong to a FB travel group (this group was of great assistance when daughter was robbed last year in Asia and has also had members step up for this 'surgical intervention') and I am a moderator of one of the sub-groups. It turns out that someone reported the GoFundMe accounts (she has 2 - one she set up for her "awareness cycling trip" and the other was set up by a FB friend for her medical costs) as fraudulent. GoFundMe investigated and found that they are legit (technically they're immoral but so are many others). I guess daughter feels that the travel site administrator and myself are the ones who made the fraud claims. We did not. In the meantime, the other moderators in the sub-group have just figured out that I am "that Mom" and have sent me the posts, messages and video link that my daughter has gone public with. She posted a 40 minute video from her hospital bed about her "life" and how I beat her when she was a child and did terrible things while working in an operating room. She was never physically or emotionally abused...and I worked in a hospital but never in the OR. My daughter has given everyone my name and personal contact info (email, phone #'s, etc.). She stated in the video that she was going to use the video for legal purposes (most likely against me) but then admitted she was under the influence of morphine! I was not actually able to view the video personally - and for that I am grateful. It feels like such a betrayal. On a funny note - I always thought her "book" was going to come out before the "movie". Guess I was wrong. One of the other travel moderators who daughter messaged felt so badly for her that they offered to fly there immediately from Australia to be by her bedside. Only days later, daughter blocked this woman who was willing to fly 5 hours and drive 5 more hours to help her. I guess daughter's paranoia that she will be "outed" is making her have to limit the circle of people she is feeding her info to. The moderator felt so devastated. We talked on the phone until the wee hours of this morning and she made me feel so much better and at the same time, she learned so much. And at 5:30 am, the phone calls from Thailand started. I did not answer the phone. [/QUOTE]
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