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<blockquote data-quote="Snow White" data-source="post: 701942" data-attributes="member: 355"><p>Thanks for your thoughts, ideas and friendly concern - it is so appreciated. Also, good reminder of the sepsis symptoms - my mom is elderly and 4 years post quadruple bypass. You never know. Thanks, SWOT, for the reminder about borderlinecentral. I've been there in the past but will definitely revisit it today.</p><p></p><p>Daughter's world is about to come to a crashing halt. She doesn't know it yet. I did talk with the Thai lawyer last night. She is concerned, practical and helpful. Daughter's previous arrest in Thailand (where I bailed her out by paying for all the damage she caused at a hotel) in July is also going to come into play now. She is still in the hospital. They are taking good care of her and the lawyer has a psychiatrist coming to see her today (if not already with the time zone difference). </p><p></p><p>The lies have all surfaced: There was no sepsis/septic shock. There are no post-op complications. She was not going to die. She will not go to jail if she can't pay her medical bills. All lies.</p><p></p><p>Her gofundme accounts have been shut down. All monies are being refunded to the donors. </p><p></p><p>The lawyer is balancing daughter's needs vs public safety & welfare. They will try to initiate some treatment there, following which daughter will most likely be deported and her Thai visa cancelled permanently. </p><p></p><p>I have already told the lawyer that daughter is not allowed to return to live in our home. Lawyer said they would work with the Canadian embassy, when it comes time for that. I also told the lawyer that we are not paying for anything - she has depleted our savings. If she is going to be sent back to our city, I'm thinking I might go to court to have involuntary admission forms done up. She will then be back in the mental health system here and she can choose where her path goes from there.</p><p></p><p>The lawyer and other people involved believe she needs to be in a mental health facility. I don't think they understand her diagnosis. They are seeing one crisis episode and most likely think it is bipolar disorder. She did have some improvement when she was on valproic acid and Seroquel but discontinued medications when she turned 18. She now self medicates off and on with alcohol and drugs. I agree with all of you that SHE needs to be in continual treatment for her disorder.</p><p></p><p>I'm just waiting now for the dominoes to start moving. I'm sure daughter will be in contact then. I will keep strong and keep handy the last email she sent me (in addition to the many others). I think this is the wake-up call she has been needing for a long time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Snow White, post: 701942, member: 355"] Thanks for your thoughts, ideas and friendly concern - it is so appreciated. Also, good reminder of the sepsis symptoms - my mom is elderly and 4 years post quadruple bypass. You never know. Thanks, SWOT, for the reminder about borderlinecentral. I've been there in the past but will definitely revisit it today. Daughter's world is about to come to a crashing halt. She doesn't know it yet. I did talk with the Thai lawyer last night. She is concerned, practical and helpful. Daughter's previous arrest in Thailand (where I bailed her out by paying for all the damage she caused at a hotel) in July is also going to come into play now. She is still in the hospital. They are taking good care of her and the lawyer has a psychiatrist coming to see her today (if not already with the time zone difference). The lies have all surfaced: There was no sepsis/septic shock. There are no post-op complications. She was not going to die. She will not go to jail if she can't pay her medical bills. All lies. Her gofundme accounts have been shut down. All monies are being refunded to the donors. The lawyer is balancing daughter's needs vs public safety & welfare. They will try to initiate some treatment there, following which daughter will most likely be deported and her Thai visa cancelled permanently. I have already told the lawyer that daughter is not allowed to return to live in our home. Lawyer said they would work with the Canadian embassy, when it comes time for that. I also told the lawyer that we are not paying for anything - she has depleted our savings. If she is going to be sent back to our city, I'm thinking I might go to court to have involuntary admission forms done up. She will then be back in the mental health system here and she can choose where her path goes from there. The lawyer and other people involved believe she needs to be in a mental health facility. I don't think they understand her diagnosis. They are seeing one crisis episode and most likely think it is bipolar disorder. She did have some improvement when she was on valproic acid and Seroquel but discontinued medications when she turned 18. She now self medicates off and on with alcohol and drugs. I agree with all of you that SHE needs to be in continual treatment for her disorder. I'm just waiting now for the dominoes to start moving. I'm sure daughter will be in contact then. I will keep strong and keep handy the last email she sent me (in addition to the many others). I think this is the wake-up call she has been needing for a long time. [/QUOTE]
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