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Need help (or an intervention) - she stepped up her game
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 713107" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>You NEED to get your locks changed ASAP. If this daughter shows up at your house, do NOT ever let her into your home. Do NOT ever let her bring so much as a purse into your home. Be SURE you know the tenancy laws in your state. </p><p></p><p>She is the kind who would insist you have the cops throw her out, and then would claim she had been there overnight at least (knowing if staying even overnight would give her rights of tenancy, which in some cities and states it actually does, which means you have to give a 30 day eviction notice). In that case, the cops won't make her leave because they won't know who is telling the truth, and no court is going to get a case that minor in to be heard in less than 30 days. So you will have to house her (and feed her because she isn't going to buy food or anything else) for at least 30 days. </p><p></p><p>So do not EVER allow her into your home. Get the locks changed if they were not changed since the last time she was in your home. Make absolutely sure that ALL of your neighbors know to call the cops if they see her anywhere near your home. Let them know you hate it, but she has threatened you on multiple occasions and you just don 't feel safe with her anywhere near your home as she is mentally ill. Usually that is enough that neighbors will call the cops as THEY don't feel safe. That is what you want.</p><p></p><p>Don't let her rob you of your life. This isn't your fault or your husbands. She is an adult, it is on her. Period. End of discussion. Insist your husband take medications if he is going into a depression. I had to do that with my husband. He fought me for a while, but it makes such a difference in how he feels that he admits that I am right to insist that he stay on the medications.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 713107, member: 1233"] You NEED to get your locks changed ASAP. If this daughter shows up at your house, do NOT ever let her into your home. Do NOT ever let her bring so much as a purse into your home. Be SURE you know the tenancy laws in your state. She is the kind who would insist you have the cops throw her out, and then would claim she had been there overnight at least (knowing if staying even overnight would give her rights of tenancy, which in some cities and states it actually does, which means you have to give a 30 day eviction notice). In that case, the cops won't make her leave because they won't know who is telling the truth, and no court is going to get a case that minor in to be heard in less than 30 days. So you will have to house her (and feed her because she isn't going to buy food or anything else) for at least 30 days. So do not EVER allow her into your home. Get the locks changed if they were not changed since the last time she was in your home. Make absolutely sure that ALL of your neighbors know to call the cops if they see her anywhere near your home. Let them know you hate it, but she has threatened you on multiple occasions and you just don 't feel safe with her anywhere near your home as she is mentally ill. Usually that is enough that neighbors will call the cops as THEY don't feel safe. That is what you want. Don't let her rob you of your life. This isn't your fault or your husbands. She is an adult, it is on her. Period. End of discussion. Insist your husband take medications if he is going into a depression. I had to do that with my husband. He fought me for a while, but it makes such a difference in how he feels that he admits that I am right to insist that he stay on the medications. [/QUOTE]
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