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<blockquote data-quote="At_The_Brink" data-source="post: 182201"><p>Seems as though you are put off a little bit by me referring to this person as a bat. Well, you might feel the same way if someone said to you "if you hate your son so much, why don't you pack up his **** and I will take him and you won't have to pay for a thing" OR he steals a bike from her son(his friend) and he's not allowed over there anymore and 2 months later she gifts him the very bike that he stole from her son OR "you need to talk to me about whats going on at your house or I am calling Social Services OR she tells you that "he doesn't feel loved"(and she is going completely off of what a 15 yo kid is telling her)........................in my opinion way overstepping her bounds and enabling his manipulation. Thats fine. I can call her J then. </p><p></p><p>The damage at the school was criminal and resulted in charges, a sentence, and many court dates. And we are yet facing a lawsuit for this. For us, that could darn near ruin us financially. It wasn't just an accident. </p><p></p><p>Neglectful? Abusive? If that were the case then don't you think with over 16 visits to our house by Social Services(all because of allegations from difficult child) that they would take the kids out? Geez, come on!!!!!! You can't be serious?!?!</p><p></p><p>Furthermore, J is not obligated at all to "experiment" with my son's medications REGARDLESS of what her experience is. With regards to his medical issue, he was having severe pain causing him to double over. She tried for 2 weeks to get ahold of the Social Worker, didn't want to take him to the doctor for fear of being sued and had my number but couldn't pick up the phone to let me know. In the mean time he dies because she doesn't want to get sued. Sounds smart to me?!?!? She is mainly there right now to provide an temporary place to be while the courts find a more suitable home. And that is IT. Teaching him to drive is a "parental" decision NOT to be made by a glorified babysitter. Also, the house is going through foreclosure(per difficult child) and there are 9 other people living in their 1,000 sq ft house. Should I have no reason to be a "tad" irritated by this woman and this situation?</p><p></p><p>And J was a request by difficult child's atty per difficult child. Isn't that every kids dream? Live with your friends parents? He is getting the easy road. A home with VERY little rules, regulations. </p><p></p><p>And the parts my atty will be hearing about don't have anything to do with what she had said about our rights being severed. I was just going to get it "cleared" up. So I KNEW. Know what I mean?? The other things regarding him not taking his medications and the pain in his stomache? THAT seems like neglect to me. No? </p><p></p><p>Funny how TODAY I left a message about the information about terminating parental rights that was told to J and TODAY I got a response. She did not call the work number I left her but my cell. She said that no, our parental rights are not severed. Ha. How about that quick response from her? Interesting. </p><p></p><p>Okay, thats it for now, getting tired. Will be back tomorrow. Thanks everyone for your thoughts and opinions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="At_The_Brink, post: 182201"] Seems as though you are put off a little bit by me referring to this person as a bat. Well, you might feel the same way if someone said to you "if you hate your son so much, why don't you pack up his **** and I will take him and you won't have to pay for a thing" OR he steals a bike from her son(his friend) and he's not allowed over there anymore and 2 months later she gifts him the very bike that he stole from her son OR "you need to talk to me about whats going on at your house or I am calling Social Services OR she tells you that "he doesn't feel loved"(and she is going completely off of what a 15 yo kid is telling her)........................in my opinion way overstepping her bounds and enabling his manipulation. Thats fine. I can call her J then. The damage at the school was criminal and resulted in charges, a sentence, and many court dates. And we are yet facing a lawsuit for this. For us, that could darn near ruin us financially. It wasn't just an accident. Neglectful? Abusive? If that were the case then don't you think with over 16 visits to our house by Social Services(all because of allegations from difficult child) that they would take the kids out? Geez, come on!!!!!! You can't be serious?!?! Furthermore, J is not obligated at all to "experiment" with my son's medications REGARDLESS of what her experience is. With regards to his medical issue, he was having severe pain causing him to double over. She tried for 2 weeks to get ahold of the Social Worker, didn't want to take him to the doctor for fear of being sued and had my number but couldn't pick up the phone to let me know. In the mean time he dies because she doesn't want to get sued. Sounds smart to me?!?!? She is mainly there right now to provide an temporary place to be while the courts find a more suitable home. And that is IT. Teaching him to drive is a "parental" decision NOT to be made by a glorified babysitter. Also, the house is going through foreclosure(per difficult child) and there are 9 other people living in their 1,000 sq ft house. Should I have no reason to be a "tad" irritated by this woman and this situation? And J was a request by difficult child's atty per difficult child. Isn't that every kids dream? Live with your friends parents? He is getting the easy road. A home with VERY little rules, regulations. And the parts my atty will be hearing about don't have anything to do with what she had said about our rights being severed. I was just going to get it "cleared" up. So I KNEW. Know what I mean?? The other things regarding him not taking his medications and the pain in his stomache? THAT seems like neglect to me. No? Funny how TODAY I left a message about the information about terminating parental rights that was told to J and TODAY I got a response. She did not call the work number I left her but my cell. She said that no, our parental rights are not severed. Ha. How about that quick response from her? Interesting. Okay, thats it for now, getting tired. Will be back tomorrow. Thanks everyone for your thoughts and opinions. [/QUOTE]
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