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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 713983" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>OMG and welcome, Summer!</p><p></p><p>Please, please, please, don't co-sign a mortgage for them (or anyone else)!</p><p></p><p>I don't know where you can find a house they can buy for less than the "1/3rd of the mortgage as rent that they pay every other month or so'' now. Even if you found such an animal, they won't pay the mortgage any more regularly than they pay the rent now, and your credit will be ruined, and you won't have the ability to kick them out of the house like you do now. Please don't.</p><p></p><p>Just a question--why does the fiance need to get a clearance to watch his own kids during the day while the mother works? This sounds fishy. Do you know for a fact that this is true?</p><p></p><p>What is this grown man doing during the day while you are cleaning his house, doing his yard work and taking care of his children?</p><p></p><p>I wouldn't pay for any wedding. This is a waste of money, especially since you are already going into debt from supporting them.</p><p></p><p>You should give them a firm date to be out of the house, and stick to it.</p><p></p><p>They aren't going to "work any of this out" as long as you rescue them.</p><p></p><p>Please start taking care of yourself, Summer.</p><p></p><p>Stay with us and continue posting. Many of us have been in your shoes to some extent.</p><p></p><p>Appl</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 713983, member: 16024"] OMG and welcome, Summer! Please, please, please, don't co-sign a mortgage for them (or anyone else)! I don't know where you can find a house they can buy for less than the "1/3rd of the mortgage as rent that they pay every other month or so'' now. Even if you found such an animal, they won't pay the mortgage any more regularly than they pay the rent now, and your credit will be ruined, and you won't have the ability to kick them out of the house like you do now. Please don't. Just a question--why does the fiance need to get a clearance to watch his own kids during the day while the mother works? This sounds fishy. Do you know for a fact that this is true? What is this grown man doing during the day while you are cleaning his house, doing his yard work and taking care of his children? I wouldn't pay for any wedding. This is a waste of money, especially since you are already going into debt from supporting them. You should give them a firm date to be out of the house, and stick to it. They aren't going to "work any of this out" as long as you rescue them. Please start taking care of yourself, Summer. Stay with us and continue posting. Many of us have been in your shoes to some extent. Appl [/QUOTE]
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