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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 713999" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Thanks for the clarification.</p><p></p><p>I do hope you will seek out some counseling for yourself. It's so easy to fall into a co-dependent relationship. It's so easy to go from helping to enabling. We as parents can be blinded by our own love for our kids.</p><p>When they go from being our "little Johnny or Susie" and grow into adults, we need to start seeing them that way. Just like when they were learning to walk, we had to let them fall, they had to find their own balance. It's the same when they are adults. It's okay to let them fall.</p><p></p><p>It's obvious you love your daughter very much and want what's best for her and your grandchildren. Don't lose yourself in the midst. You are important and have your own life to live. Be good to yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 713999, member: 18516"] Thanks for the clarification. I do hope you will seek out some counseling for yourself. It's so easy to fall into a co-dependent relationship. It's so easy to go from helping to enabling. We as parents can be blinded by our own love for our kids. When they go from being our "little Johnny or Susie" and grow into adults, we need to start seeing them that way. Just like when they were learning to walk, we had to let them fall, they had to find their own balance. It's the same when they are adults. It's okay to let them fall. It's obvious you love your daughter very much and want what's best for her and your grandchildren. Don't lose yourself in the midst. You are important and have your own life to live. Be good to yourself. [/QUOTE]
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