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<blockquote data-quote="Crayola13" data-source="post: 714004" data-attributes="member: 21066"><p>You should make a list of how they have taken advantage of your generosity. For example, having a baby when they cannot pay rent some months. They don't respect the home you have allowed them to live in. They wouldn't take care of a new house. They would destroy it. Think about how much it would cost you when you have to replace the carpet, counters, etc. Now, they're using you for a babysitting service. If something ever happens to you, they will have a hard time surviving. Explain to your daughter that you love her enough to teach her self-sufficiency. I hope her fiance truly loves her and isn't staying with her just because of how you support them. If she makes a good salary, while you're buying them a house, he's got it made. He is in a financial position where he doesn't have to work. That is the way it will always be. I am betting he would leave her if you cut off support. I hope not. Point out to them specifically how they don't take care of the house they live in. The cleaning, etc. If he isn't working, why is he not cleaning? What does he do during the day while she's at work? Does he have dinner prepared when she gets home?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Crayola13, post: 714004, member: 21066"] You should make a list of how they have taken advantage of your generosity. For example, having a baby when they cannot pay rent some months. They don't respect the home you have allowed them to live in. They wouldn't take care of a new house. They would destroy it. Think about how much it would cost you when you have to replace the carpet, counters, etc. Now, they're using you for a babysitting service. If something ever happens to you, they will have a hard time surviving. Explain to your daughter that you love her enough to teach her self-sufficiency. I hope her fiance truly loves her and isn't staying with her just because of how you support them. If she makes a good salary, while you're buying them a house, he's got it made. He is in a financial position where he doesn't have to work. That is the way it will always be. I am betting he would leave her if you cut off support. I hope not. Point out to them specifically how they don't take care of the house they live in. The cleaning, etc. If he isn't working, why is he not cleaning? What does he do during the day while she's at work? Does he have dinner prepared when she gets home? [/QUOTE]
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