Jen, I'm glad you got everything set up. I hope this clinic meets your expectations.
klmno, at age 15 I had a milder form of the food phobia that my daughter had. I was down to 82 pounds at 5 feet. So I have some sense of my own what this is all about. My daughter was down to 30 pounds at age 8 (I actually forget how tall she was, but she's petite). It was very scary. The doctors and therapists worked with her for weeks to try to get her to eat. The only things that worked were: 1) restoring her nutrition through an NG tube and 2) reducing her anxiety with Zyprexa. Obviously, every kid is different, and I can't compare my daughter to Jen's, but if I had to do it all over again, I would skip all the begging and cajoling to get her to eat and go right to the medications. Once her anxiety was in check, she ate easily again.
