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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 236034" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>PLEASE keep in CLOSE contact with your therapist and psychiatrist. I know you have issues with ER's, but you sound very much full of anxiety and obsessing over H's death and Matt's safety. And your own safety.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry the guy was using you. Now you know and can look for something else.</p><p></p><p>Just know that we care about you and worry about you. And if you don't take care of yourself we are going to be very upset with you.</p><p></p><p>Can you send Matt letters that are not read by the staff? Or do they read all his mail? I think, if you send it through the US mail they are not legally allowed to read it. </p><p></p><p>If you can send him a letter that only he can see, you might put in a code phrase that seems innocuous but means "Hey Mom, there is a HUGE problem and I NEED you." You have to be able to trust that he won't abuse this. But something like the X that we did reminds me of the elephant we saw at the zoo. Or some other innocent sounding phrase.</p><p></p><p>It is one way you might be able to stop worrying about him. But ONLY if you can trust him not to use the phrase just because he is mad or doesn't like what is going on.</p><p></p><p>Sending hugs.</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 236034, member: 1233"] PLEASE keep in CLOSE contact with your therapist and psychiatrist. I know you have issues with ER's, but you sound very much full of anxiety and obsessing over H's death and Matt's safety. And your own safety. I am sorry the guy was using you. Now you know and can look for something else. Just know that we care about you and worry about you. And if you don't take care of yourself we are going to be very upset with you. Can you send Matt letters that are not read by the staff? Or do they read all his mail? I think, if you send it through the US mail they are not legally allowed to read it. If you can send him a letter that only he can see, you might put in a code phrase that seems innocuous but means "Hey Mom, there is a HUGE problem and I NEED you." You have to be able to trust that he won't abuse this. But something like the X that we did reminds me of the elephant we saw at the zoo. Or some other innocent sounding phrase. It is one way you might be able to stop worrying about him. But ONLY if you can trust him not to use the phrase just because he is mad or doesn't like what is going on. Sending hugs. Susie [/QUOTE]
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