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<blockquote data-quote="littlefoot" data-source="post: 123876" data-attributes="member: 4568"><p>My biggest concern is an education, and I know my son. If the school gives in and lets him come an hour later- he'll want 2 hours. I dont trust my son. He would do anything to be in this house on his own without me and do nothing at all. When anyone of authourity comes over he tells them what a bad parent I am but can't be specific. Of course not, there is nothing. I feel like hes tryn to turn the whole thing around and make me look like I'm the one who needs psychiatric help, in fact he tells me I do. He says I make up everything I'm telling others, ie. p.o. , doctors., judge. I don't make them up. Its all too real. I don't have a life. He will harrass me about everything until I'm so exhausted, I give in. Forget about holding things out, he'll wait them out, complaine and harrass while he does but will wait.. He has no cell, no new clothes, no cable no computer. He'll just sit around. I can send him to his room but he'll come out alot. And then on top of that doesn't go to school. So what am I raising. I cannot make him do anything. He doesn't help around the house, and now last night when I told him he needed to take his depakote he says he'll take it when he wants to. I cannot fight this any longer. Just writing this makes me wail up in tears. I feel like in cps care in a group home, they can make him do what he needs to. I can't. And now I'm really resentful because of what cps had me agree to with this family preservation stuff. It has nothing to do with my son and his disorders and what the jail psychiatric recommended. They come over and ask me questions like do I know how to take a bus or how to manage my money. I know the company cps contracted with is frustrated too but I thought cps was going to help us with my son's behavior problem. No- they tricked me and I am so mad. This just backed us up further when I was under the impression there was finally light. In fact in the hearing the cps lady says "oh yes we'll send a behavior specialist and he'll work with your son" bs - never happened. In fact they don't even have to talk to him. It turned out to be me and looking like I was negligent because I filed dependency. I like the girls who come to see me, but I don't know if I can answer there stupid questions anymore- do I know how to get clothes if I need them. CPS! LOOK AT MY SONS diagnosis. - MOOD DISORDER, BORDERLINE PERSONALITY, DYSMORPHIC. THIS IS WHAT THE GAL , PROBATION OFFICER, ME AND THE LAWYER SAID WE NEEDED HELP WITH. Sorry, I'm just mad now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="littlefoot, post: 123876, member: 4568"] My biggest concern is an education, and I know my son. If the school gives in and lets him come an hour later- he'll want 2 hours. I dont trust my son. He would do anything to be in this house on his own without me and do nothing at all. When anyone of authourity comes over he tells them what a bad parent I am but can't be specific. Of course not, there is nothing. I feel like hes tryn to turn the whole thing around and make me look like I'm the one who needs psychiatric help, in fact he tells me I do. He says I make up everything I'm telling others, ie. p.o. , doctors., judge. I don't make them up. Its all too real. I don't have a life. He will harrass me about everything until I'm so exhausted, I give in. Forget about holding things out, he'll wait them out, complaine and harrass while he does but will wait.. He has no cell, no new clothes, no cable no computer. He'll just sit around. I can send him to his room but he'll come out alot. And then on top of that doesn't go to school. So what am I raising. I cannot make him do anything. He doesn't help around the house, and now last night when I told him he needed to take his depakote he says he'll take it when he wants to. I cannot fight this any longer. Just writing this makes me wail up in tears. I feel like in cps care in a group home, they can make him do what he needs to. I can't. And now I'm really resentful because of what cps had me agree to with this family preservation stuff. It has nothing to do with my son and his disorders and what the jail psychiatric recommended. They come over and ask me questions like do I know how to take a bus or how to manage my money. I know the company cps contracted with is frustrated too but I thought cps was going to help us with my son's behavior problem. No- they tricked me and I am so mad. This just backed us up further when I was under the impression there was finally light. In fact in the hearing the cps lady says "oh yes we'll send a behavior specialist and he'll work with your son" bs - never happened. In fact they don't even have to talk to him. It turned out to be me and looking like I was negligent because I filed dependency. I like the girls who come to see me, but I don't know if I can answer there stupid questions anymore- do I know how to get clothes if I need them. CPS! LOOK AT MY SONS diagnosis. - MOOD DISORDER, BORDERLINE PERSONALITY, DYSMORPHIC. THIS IS WHAT THE GAL , PROBATION OFFICER, ME AND THE LAWYER SAID WE NEEDED HELP WITH. Sorry, I'm just mad now. [/QUOTE]
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