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<blockquote data-quote="witchiewoman71" data-source="post: 432931"><p>Thanks, Linda. Well at least the one thing I've learned from listening to the CDs is how to keep MYSELF from losing it! I noticed if I escalate, everyone else around here follows suit, difficult children, husband, easy child...it's crazy. If my difficult children escalate, I try as hard as I can to remain calm, even, and to the point. I no longer have to argue with my difficult child. She will attempt all she wants, but I either walk away, or bite my tongue and let her keep talking without responding. Eventually she gets the hint and goes about her business. I hate the tension that is here simply from my oldest difficult child being in the house. It is such a relief when she actually does get to go somewhere! She's spending the night at a friend's house this evening. She actually for once did what I asked her to do and earned it. I am relaxed and calm. So...maybe the cds for the Total Transformation do have some benefits...if not for the oldest difficult child, than at least for me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witchiewoman71, post: 432931"] Thanks, Linda. Well at least the one thing I've learned from listening to the CDs is how to keep MYSELF from losing it! I noticed if I escalate, everyone else around here follows suit, difficult children, husband, easy child...it's crazy. If my difficult children escalate, I try as hard as I can to remain calm, even, and to the point. I no longer have to argue with my difficult child. She will attempt all she wants, but I either walk away, or bite my tongue and let her keep talking without responding. Eventually she gets the hint and goes about her business. I hate the tension that is here simply from my oldest difficult child being in the house. It is such a relief when she actually does get to go somewhere! She's spending the night at a friend's house this evening. She actually for once did what I asked her to do and earned it. I am relaxed and calm. So...maybe the cds for the Total Transformation do have some benefits...if not for the oldest difficult child, than at least for me. [/QUOTE]
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