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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 456937" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Good ideas, all. I'll tell Jumper to make sure he takes his money out of the bank before he asks if he can move. He is going to ask if he can go to his best friend's house, but they're so sadistic they will probably not allow it until he is eighteen, in which time they have no choice. Even if he's still a student, he can move. No, he doesn't have to quit his jobs. I'm guessing that his parents will take him to THAT (or maybe his friends...they all drive). He can also get to football practice. The thing is, Jumper is happy that they told him he can do what he wants. I don't know if he's happy or puzzled or feeling abandoned again. I tried to tell her this is probably hard for him. On top of that his stepmother is so loony that she can say one thing one day and totally reverse it the next day. I am pretty familiar with borderline personality disorder (cough) and I think this is her problem. She is very erratic. I'm sooooooo sorry that my little girl hooked up with THIS boy for her first "love." </p><p></p><p>When I try to tell Jumper that there really isn't a whole lot anyone can do until he is eighteen she says, "I don't want to talk about it." I wish she was the type of kid who had a crush on somebody every other week, but she isn't! In fact, this is the first boy she has been willing to sort of go out with in any way. </p><p></p><p>I feel really bad for J., but I'm more concerned about Jumper. She is normally so rational and focused. But she really has deep feelings toward this boy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 456937, member: 1550"] Good ideas, all. I'll tell Jumper to make sure he takes his money out of the bank before he asks if he can move. He is going to ask if he can go to his best friend's house, but they're so sadistic they will probably not allow it until he is eighteen, in which time they have no choice. Even if he's still a student, he can move. No, he doesn't have to quit his jobs. I'm guessing that his parents will take him to THAT (or maybe his friends...they all drive). He can also get to football practice. The thing is, Jumper is happy that they told him he can do what he wants. I don't know if he's happy or puzzled or feeling abandoned again. I tried to tell her this is probably hard for him. On top of that his stepmother is so loony that she can say one thing one day and totally reverse it the next day. I am pretty familiar with borderline personality disorder (cough) and I think this is her problem. She is very erratic. I'm sooooooo sorry that my little girl hooked up with THIS boy for her first "love." When I try to tell Jumper that there really isn't a whole lot anyone can do until he is eighteen she says, "I don't want to talk about it." I wish she was the type of kid who had a crush on somebody every other week, but she isn't! In fact, this is the first boy she has been willing to sort of go out with in any way. I feel really bad for J., but I'm more concerned about Jumper. She is normally so rational and focused. But she really has deep feelings toward this boy. [/QUOTE]
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