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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 586532" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sending hugs and support. She needs to leave your home. If Mr/ Feather softOssy balls takes her into his home, you cannot control that. You can only control what you do and what resources you have are used for. Who owns her car? Who pays the loan on the car? If you own the car, take the keys and spark plug wires or battery out. Call the cops if she fixes it and drives it. Don't back down on pressing charges for a stolen car. If her dad does, well, refuse to let it be on your property. Call the cops and have it towed as an unisured car on your property with-o your permission. Don't tell difficult child ahead of time. let her dad bail the car out of impound and either give it back or keep it away from her. If she owns it and isn't paying the loan, let it be reposessed. If daddy pays the bill, don't let it be on your property. Heck, give the cops notice that it is uninsured. Around here they won't necessarly look for it, but if they see it parked on the street, usually the officer will remember if a car of that make/model was listed as uninsured or stolen and will run the tags. Then they either impound it or wait for the driver to move it, then they impound it and ticket or arrest the driver. </p><p></p><p>You cannot continue to have her live wth you. She isn't making progress on building a life for herself. She is looking for luuuuvvv and finds Mr. Right Now instead, and that is downright dangerous for both her and for you as her men clearly are told where you live. </p><p></p><p>I am so very sorry. I hope she can grow up at some time. Until then, you must do what you need to do. And safety has to be the first priority. You cannot keep her from making unsafe choices, but you can keep her from making them on your dime and from telling these guys where you and she live.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 586532, member: 1233"] Sending hugs and support. She needs to leave your home. If Mr/ Feather softOssy balls takes her into his home, you cannot control that. You can only control what you do and what resources you have are used for. Who owns her car? Who pays the loan on the car? If you own the car, take the keys and spark plug wires or battery out. Call the cops if she fixes it and drives it. Don't back down on pressing charges for a stolen car. If her dad does, well, refuse to let it be on your property. Call the cops and have it towed as an unisured car on your property with-o your permission. Don't tell difficult child ahead of time. let her dad bail the car out of impound and either give it back or keep it away from her. If she owns it and isn't paying the loan, let it be reposessed. If daddy pays the bill, don't let it be on your property. Heck, give the cops notice that it is uninsured. Around here they won't necessarly look for it, but if they see it parked on the street, usually the officer will remember if a car of that make/model was listed as uninsured or stolen and will run the tags. Then they either impound it or wait for the driver to move it, then they impound it and ticket or arrest the driver. You cannot continue to have her live wth you. She isn't making progress on building a life for herself. She is looking for luuuuvvv and finds Mr. Right Now instead, and that is downright dangerous for both her and for you as her men clearly are told where you live. I am so very sorry. I hope she can grow up at some time. Until then, you must do what you need to do. And safety has to be the first priority. You cannot keep her from making unsafe choices, but you can keep her from making them on your dime and from telling these guys where you and she live. [/QUOTE]
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