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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 177068" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>I'm sorry you're so frustrated.</p><p> </p><p>I'm a little confused. Why would it be bad if you were stricter? I'd rather that my husband and are were identical in terms of discipline and rules, but since we're not, I have no problems being the enforcer. </p><p> </p><p>There must have been something in your SO's tone of voice or the length of the conversation that made it seem as though you were the bad guy.</p><p> </p><p>So, did the therapist have any suggestions? Or does s/he just tend to open a can of worms and then leave it unresolved? THAT's the part I dont' like. It doesn't sound like you accomplished anything.</p><p> </p><p>P.S. DETACH!!!!!!!!! I've gone through many periods of loathing my difficult child and sometimes, just one night away at a friend's is all I need to regain my balance and strength. </p><p> </p><p>P.P.S. I hope your SO and you don't start working against one another ... difficult child's have a sneaky way to making adults do that ...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 177068, member: 3419"] I'm sorry you're so frustrated. I'm a little confused. Why would it be bad if you were stricter? I'd rather that my husband and are were identical in terms of discipline and rules, but since we're not, I have no problems being the enforcer. There must have been something in your SO's tone of voice or the length of the conversation that made it seem as though you were the bad guy. So, did the therapist have any suggestions? Or does s/he just tend to open a can of worms and then leave it unresolved? THAT's the part I dont' like. It doesn't sound like you accomplished anything. P.S. DETACH!!!!!!!!! I've gone through many periods of loathing my difficult child and sometimes, just one night away at a friend's is all I need to regain my balance and strength. P.P.S. I hope your SO and you don't start working against one another ... difficult child's have a sneaky way to making adults do that ... [/QUOTE]
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