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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 177122" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Who was with the kids the majority of the time before you and SO got together? What can SO do to take on some of the responsibility for HIS kids more of the time. I would be pretty upset if I married someone and then got bashed for getting things done wtih the kids if I was the only one with them all that time!</p><p> </p><p>I have found that many therapists buy into what the difficult children tell them until they have the manipulations of a difficult child happen TO THEM! So until this therapist realizes how cruel difficult child can be, she is going to think one of the parents is just horrible. Or both parents. Until the realization, tdocs can work wonderfully in difficult child's plan to turn parents against each other. They really can, because we see tdocs as "experts" when they are NOT.</p><p> </p><p>Did that make sense? </p><p> </p><p>Anyway, big hug, and I hope you and SO can talk it out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 177122, member: 1233"] Who was with the kids the majority of the time before you and SO got together? What can SO do to take on some of the responsibility for HIS kids more of the time. I would be pretty upset if I married someone and then got bashed for getting things done wtih the kids if I was the only one with them all that time! I have found that many therapists buy into what the difficult children tell them until they have the manipulations of a difficult child happen TO THEM! So until this therapist realizes how cruel difficult child can be, she is going to think one of the parents is just horrible. Or both parents. Until the realization, tdocs can work wonderfully in difficult child's plan to turn parents against each other. They really can, because we see tdocs as "experts" when they are NOT. Did that make sense? Anyway, big hug, and I hope you and SO can talk it out. [/QUOTE]
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