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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 580817" data-attributes="member: 15799"><p>Buddy's right. It is going to take a lot of conscious self-talk. There is only so much you can do. If she isn't ready on time, what's the plan to cover YOUR backside? Sitting down and making a written plan is a great idea. Include all the if's with thought out then's and stick to it. Do not say or do anything that isn't "in the plan". You can do it. Just make sure to share the various "end results" (consequences) with her so she knows. If it includes calling the school and the truant officer and even the police, make sure she knows what you will do and under what circumstances.</p><p></p><p>I know what it's like to not be able to let go of dealing with old behavior. I still remember what difficult child 1 was like on the Risperdal and then Prozac and "plan" for and watch for it happening again even though I know it never will. It's hard, really hard. Do what you can with conscious effort when things are calm.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 580817, member: 15799"] Buddy's right. It is going to take a lot of conscious self-talk. There is only so much you can do. If she isn't ready on time, what's the plan to cover YOUR backside? Sitting down and making a written plan is a great idea. Include all the if's with thought out then's and stick to it. Do not say or do anything that isn't "in the plan". You can do it. Just make sure to share the various "end results" (consequences) with her so she knows. If it includes calling the school and the truant officer and even the police, make sure she knows what you will do and under what circumstances. I know what it's like to not be able to let go of dealing with old behavior. I still remember what difficult child 1 was like on the Risperdal and then Prozac and "plan" for and watch for it happening again even though I know it never will. It's hard, really hard. Do what you can with conscious effort when things are calm. [/QUOTE]
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