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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 734690" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Ugh so hard to know what to do.</p><p></p><p>My youngest son one time went to a friends to play from preschool - I was there too talking with the mom the entire time - and they were in the boys room. They had to be about 4-1/2 years old. The father was a firefighter and the mom was really nice and had an infant also. I know the dad was away a lot for work.</p><p></p><p>My son had wanted to leave pretty quickly but I figured it was anxiety and got him resettled. The other boy seemed pretty aggressive/loud.</p><p></p><p>When we left my son told me he did not want to go there anymore. He said the boy asked him to play "butts and weenies". HUH??? I said what is that? And he said something about he wanted to show him his pee pee or something. Nothing happened and I did not tell the boy's mother because I didn't even know what to tell her and she seemed overwhelmed with the new baby and husband gone so much. I did not let my son play there again.</p><p></p><p>Years later another incident is when a school friend kept grabbing my son's crotch. I did tell that boy's mother and it turned out that the boy had it happen to him from other kids so who even knows what that was about.</p><p></p><p>I guess I'm saying that things do happen with kids. They are curious by nature. But I agree with the other posters as how to handle it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 734690, member: 15032"] Ugh so hard to know what to do. My youngest son one time went to a friends to play from preschool - I was there too talking with the mom the entire time - and they were in the boys room. They had to be about 4-1/2 years old. The father was a firefighter and the mom was really nice and had an infant also. I know the dad was away a lot for work. My son had wanted to leave pretty quickly but I figured it was anxiety and got him resettled. The other boy seemed pretty aggressive/loud. When we left my son told me he did not want to go there anymore. He said the boy asked him to play "butts and weenies". HUH??? I said what is that? And he said something about he wanted to show him his pee pee or something. Nothing happened and I did not tell the boy's mother because I didn't even know what to tell her and she seemed overwhelmed with the new baby and husband gone so much. I did not let my son play there again. Years later another incident is when a school friend kept grabbing my son's crotch. I did tell that boy's mother and it turned out that the boy had it happen to him from other kids so who even knows what that was about. I guess I'm saying that things do happen with kids. They are curious by nature. But I agree with the other posters as how to handle it. [/QUOTE]
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