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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 735146" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I agree.</p><p></p><p>Same sex experimentation or desire does not make somebody gay.</p><p></p><p>If there was no forcing, while I see this as sensitive, I do not see this as crisis territory.</p><p></p><p>I do not think you are overreacting. He seems pressured by his sexuality, and not know how to contain it, I think, in ways that protect him. I do think he could benefit from some kind of counseling, or you could benefit to know how to guide him. And in case he has a history of molest that is fueling this. And with your history (I have the same) it has to be triggering.</p><p></p><p>But I am now reading the part about the insurance instability.</p><p></p><p>What about 12 step groups? For you for sure. You will get fellowship and be able to talk things through. There is al a teen for his age group. He is almost old enough.</p><p></p><p>The thing is to normalize this. With this I agree with baggy. First of all because this incident may have been a request to experiment only. He may have to learn how to more effectively or appropriately express his needs or not </p><p></p><p>So I am saying something radical here. This is a kind of gift. That can permit healing too. By letting air in. For each of us.</p><p></p><p>I would google sexual acting out by 12 year old. What to do. And see if there are online resources.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 735146, member: 18958"] I agree. Same sex experimentation or desire does not make somebody gay. If there was no forcing, while I see this as sensitive, I do not see this as crisis territory. I do not think you are overreacting. He seems pressured by his sexuality, and not know how to contain it, I think, in ways that protect him. I do think he could benefit from some kind of counseling, or you could benefit to know how to guide him. And in case he has a history of molest that is fueling this. And with your history (I have the same) it has to be triggering. But I am now reading the part about the insurance instability. What about 12 step groups? For you for sure. You will get fellowship and be able to talk things through. There is al a teen for his age group. He is almost old enough. The thing is to normalize this. With this I agree with baggy. First of all because this incident may have been a request to experiment only. He may have to learn how to more effectively or appropriately express his needs or not So I am saying something radical here. This is a kind of gift. That can permit healing too. By letting air in. For each of us. I would google sexual acting out by 12 year old. What to do. And see if there are online resources. [/QUOTE]
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