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Emily...I can understand how you feel.  What you might want to do is suggest to him is have them divide up the check and send 80% to your account and 20% to his so that he has his spending money.  Maybe that would make you and him feel less weird.  He would still have his account with his money in it and you would have the household bill money.  Or you could just transfer some to his as soon as you got it if they wont do the split.  With banking online its quite easy to move money around.