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<blockquote data-quote="Tiapet" data-source="post: 518391" data-attributes="member: 455"><p>SS, you know, some of what you said made a whole lot of sense! Yes, we have done rewards/consequence to death by now and I have read love and logic book (and all the others too). He is a silly/clown type kid so you idea of a "game" might be a good one! Never thought of it from that angle for him though because I always thought he might twist things we do but in this case it may actually work if I combine it with something else as well in case he takes the "game" aspect in the wrong direction by being too silly with it. I think I will try the cheerio idea and couple it with a reward. It may work. On the rare occasion I've gotten him to clean it up but had something really big to hold over his head he wanted. So, um yeah, you had a really good thought! Thanks! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>Now if I could just figure out his bra stealing thing. My youngest daughter difficult child would be so much happier. She isn't allowed a lock on her bedroom door and oldest has one so he can't really access her things anymore unless they happen to be around which is rare too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiapet, post: 518391, member: 455"] SS, you know, some of what you said made a whole lot of sense! Yes, we have done rewards/consequence to death by now and I have read love and logic book (and all the others too). He is a silly/clown type kid so you idea of a "game" might be a good one! Never thought of it from that angle for him though because I always thought he might twist things we do but in this case it may actually work if I combine it with something else as well in case he takes the "game" aspect in the wrong direction by being too silly with it. I think I will try the cheerio idea and couple it with a reward. It may work. On the rare occasion I've gotten him to clean it up but had something really big to hold over his head he wanted. So, um yeah, you had a really good thought! Thanks! :) Now if I could just figure out his bra stealing thing. My youngest daughter difficult child would be so much happier. She isn't allowed a lock on her bedroom door and oldest has one so he can't really access her things anymore unless they happen to be around which is rare too. [/QUOTE]
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