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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 753207" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I cannot speak about the psychological points here, but I can tell you a boundary that I set for my kids years ago. If they live with me and/or I pay their medical bills, they WILL have me on their HIPAA forms and I WILL speak to their doctors or send information to their doctors as I see fit. Does not matter what age they are. It is one of the costs of living at home and of having me get them to appointments and help wtih medical bills.</p><p></p><p>None of my kids fuss about this because it has been a stated rule since before they were teens. I don't generally poke into their doctor appointments unless there is some big issue going on. But I can if I see a need. And they know that I will. You might consider making this a condition of helping her if you help with these things. Then send info to the doctor instead of to your daughter. Given all you are dealing with in regard to her health, it seems reasonable to ask her nutritionist psychiatrist if this is reputable research that would help her or not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 753207, member: 1233"] I cannot speak about the psychological points here, but I can tell you a boundary that I set for my kids years ago. If they live with me and/or I pay their medical bills, they WILL have me on their HIPAA forms and I WILL speak to their doctors or send information to their doctors as I see fit. Does not matter what age they are. It is one of the costs of living at home and of having me get them to appointments and help wtih medical bills. None of my kids fuss about this because it has been a stated rule since before they were teens. I don't generally poke into their doctor appointments unless there is some big issue going on. But I can if I see a need. And they know that I will. You might consider making this a condition of helping her if you help with these things. Then send info to the doctor instead of to your daughter. Given all you are dealing with in regard to her health, it seems reasonable to ask her nutritionist psychiatrist if this is reputable research that would help her or not. [/QUOTE]
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