Thank you. No worries.
I had a friend have some luck paying her adult child to do volunteer work and this eventually led to a paying job. But I think he was more motivated and slightly healthier. Slightly. It seem to work for her situation. Who knows for certain.
I’m very unsure if it was a good idea.
I try not to let her get me down or steal my joy...but some days are just harder than others.
It seems so futile at times. Ugh.