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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 215085" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>klmno</p><p> </p><p>thanks i'm so so done right now i have to be honest i really am. I can't do this every holiday i can't handle it. I deserve some normalcy also and my kids. I've smoked way too much today, called my mom of all ppl and vented lol, tried working with boyfriend totally and for him to say that WOW is all i can say.</p><p> </p><p>I'm just going to my parents i'm keeping my plans whether he goes or not. I'm done now. I try so hard because i'm a good person, i give my all, my heart, my time and than he says well they'll wanna see my family!! Can you imagine?? Am I being overdramatic here?? I don't think I am.</p><p> </p><p>He won't do that, he won't drop them by his families without him. You are 100&#37; correct we shouldn't change our plans due to his ex being a pyscho. I can't believe he even said that to me. He said well i didn't say i'd do that, yet it is the truth they won't want to go to your parents!!! I said oh well, they dont' wanna be home because mom's not cooking or caring i offer our existing plans, yet you take it a step further and want to totally cater to them now??? so the heck with me,easy child, and difficult child???</p><p> </p><p>That man will sit alone with his kids on thanksgiving i will be in my truck in a heartbeat with my kids. Plus difficult child, mine will give me a huge problem now if he gets his kids and hauls them off to his dad's difficult child will cry because she'll wanna be with them yet will want to see her grandparents.</p><p> </p><p>I can totally see why the therapist said to not allow this to happen. So every holiday his ex can flip script upon how she's feeling, and totally screw our holiday up because he wont' just keep our plans in place and add his kids??</p><p> </p><p>i am so livid. you have Occupational Therapist (OT) understand it's not the first time his ex has done something totally wrong and self centered that has affected me and my family. If i told you the stories your hair would stand on end. ugh!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 215085, member: 4514"] klmno thanks i'm so so done right now i have to be honest i really am. I can't do this every holiday i can't handle it. I deserve some normalcy also and my kids. I've smoked way too much today, called my mom of all ppl and vented lol, tried working with boyfriend totally and for him to say that WOW is all i can say. I'm just going to my parents i'm keeping my plans whether he goes or not. I'm done now. I try so hard because i'm a good person, i give my all, my heart, my time and than he says well they'll wanna see my family!! Can you imagine?? Am I being overdramatic here?? I don't think I am. He won't do that, he won't drop them by his families without him. You are 100% correct we shouldn't change our plans due to his ex being a pyscho. I can't believe he even said that to me. He said well i didn't say i'd do that, yet it is the truth they won't want to go to your parents!!! I said oh well, they dont' wanna be home because mom's not cooking or caring i offer our existing plans, yet you take it a step further and want to totally cater to them now??? so the heck with me,easy child, and difficult child??? That man will sit alone with his kids on thanksgiving i will be in my truck in a heartbeat with my kids. Plus difficult child, mine will give me a huge problem now if he gets his kids and hauls them off to his dad's difficult child will cry because she'll wanna be with them yet will want to see her grandparents. I can totally see why the therapist said to not allow this to happen. So every holiday his ex can flip script upon how she's feeling, and totally screw our holiday up because he wont' just keep our plans in place and add his kids?? i am so livid. you have Occupational Therapist (OT) understand it's not the first time his ex has done something totally wrong and self centered that has affected me and my family. If i told you the stories your hair would stand on end. ugh! [/QUOTE]
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