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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 215107" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p> </p><p>You are right i have to breath i'm flipping out right now. Bottom line is we already told my parents we are coming, reservations have been made, etc. I told difficult child she is excited, so is easy child.</p><p> </p><p>This thread was all about his ex being selfish and not wanting her kids on the holiday and giving them an option if they wanted to spend it with dad without consulting dad. His divorce decree states this year is her year, yet she is not wanting to make the effort for her kids.</p><p> </p><p>So, only option right now is if he comes to his senses, and just includes his kids with our existing plans. If he choses to go to his dad's with his kids, bad bad choice on his part (catering to his children's needs), he will also upset my difficult child, not to mention my parents.</p><p> </p><p>Therapist suggested to not even take them at all. If you read further into beginning of the post, yet i felt too bad and suggested to him we just take them. Yet not to change our plans for the day, and upset difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>So, in closing his ex will mess with us every year this is what she does. That is why therapist said put an end to it right now. Yet i didn't want kids to get hurt to teach mom a lesson. yet he has to understand and be a grown up and realize he can't change his plans already made last minute like this. That's just wrong.</p><p> </p><p>His ex has such severe interference in our lives. she is so so difficult and this is just one small example. it has been a year and a half of this now. i can't handle the stress i have a full plate already.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 215107, member: 4514"] hi, You are right i have to breath i'm flipping out right now. Bottom line is we already told my parents we are coming, reservations have been made, etc. I told difficult child she is excited, so is easy child. This thread was all about his ex being selfish and not wanting her kids on the holiday and giving them an option if they wanted to spend it with dad without consulting dad. His divorce decree states this year is her year, yet she is not wanting to make the effort for her kids. So, only option right now is if he comes to his senses, and just includes his kids with our existing plans. If he choses to go to his dad's with his kids, bad bad choice on his part (catering to his children's needs), he will also upset my difficult child, not to mention my parents. Therapist suggested to not even take them at all. If you read further into beginning of the post, yet i felt too bad and suggested to him we just take them. Yet not to change our plans for the day, and upset difficult child. So, in closing his ex will mess with us every year this is what she does. That is why therapist said put an end to it right now. Yet i didn't want kids to get hurt to teach mom a lesson. yet he has to understand and be a grown up and realize he can't change his plans already made last minute like this. That's just wrong. His ex has such severe interference in our lives. she is so so difficult and this is just one small example. it has been a year and a half of this now. i can't handle the stress i have a full plate already. [/QUOTE]
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