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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 723625" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>i agree with all of the rest of you.</p><p></p><p>except i would think about the repercussions of talking to them. not because it is wrong but because they sound nutty and oblivious. their judgement sucks. they are compromising their child without a second thought. do you believe they will listen to you? </p><p></p><p>which still does not affect your decision but know up front how they might react. defensively. angry. in denial. blaming you. </p><p>without hearing one thing.</p><p></p><p>also an anonymous referral to cps might not affect positively the child. again. this should not stop you. but should be part of your decision upfront.</p><p></p><p>this savior/rescue complex is common with adoptive parents. </p><p></p><p>this seems like a boundary issue as much as anything. </p><p></p><p>which still does not mean you should not do what you think is right.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 723625, member: 18958"] i agree with all of the rest of you. except i would think about the repercussions of talking to them. not because it is wrong but because they sound nutty and oblivious. their judgement sucks. they are compromising their child without a second thought. do you believe they will listen to you? which still does not affect your decision but know up front how they might react. defensively. angry. in denial. blaming you. without hearing one thing. also an anonymous referral to cps might not affect positively the child. again. this should not stop you. but should be part of your decision upfront. this savior/rescue complex is common with adoptive parents. this seems like a boundary issue as much as anything. which still does not mean you should not do what you think is right. [/QUOTE]
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