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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 410251" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am sorry. </p><p> </p><p>Just because she isn't throwing things at you doesn't mean you are safe in your home. The stress from her tirades and gfgness truly could be destroying your health to the point that it kills you. Esp as you have a history of heart problems. </p><p> </p><p>Have you discussed any of this with YOUR doctor? Asked the doctor how much worse things have gotten healthwise in the last six months to a year? Where you are headed healthwise if things don't change a lot in the near future? </p><p> </p><p>If, as i suspect, you are getting worse at a fast rate (or even a medium rate!), then you need to do some serious thinking. What would happen to her if you suddenly collapsed or died (God forbid!)?</p><p> </p><p>Have you considered/planned for what will happen to her if you suddenly die? Maybe you could look at those plans and work something out so that she could live at least part time with someone else. </p><p> </p><p>I just know that you have not felt good in a long, long, long time. Things just seem to be getting worse with you, esp healthwise. So something has to give or esle I am afraid I will come to the board one day to find a post that says you died. I do not ever want to learn that!!!!!</p><p> </p><p>I don't have any suggestions other than first talking to your doctor and then maybe talking to social services. Do you qualify for disability or SSI? If so maybe they can help you find a situation that would be good for difficult child and provide the help and break that YOU need. </p><p> </p><p>Her rages are a type of abuse of you. Call a domestic violence center and ask them to help. Make an appointment and go ask them about how to handle this - the rages, etc... are a very nasty form of abuse. Just because it is your child doesn't mean you are not abused. The dv center may have suggestions to help you with the stress and abuse that are making your helath problems much worse.</p><p> </p><p>I am so sorry you are in such an awful situation and that it is taking a huge toll on your health. Before you say that this or that won't work, think hard about what having you collapse from the incredible stress of difficult child's tirades and behavior will do to difficult child in the long run? She may feel a lot of guilt over this later and it could take a huge toll on her. Going to the doctor, social services, the dv center, etc... for some help NOW might mean you get some real help and maybe you can prevent that.</p><p> </p><p>{{{{{gentle hugs}}}}}</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 410251, member: 1233"] I am sorry. Just because she isn't throwing things at you doesn't mean you are safe in your home. The stress from her tirades and gfgness truly could be destroying your health to the point that it kills you. Esp as you have a history of heart problems. Have you discussed any of this with YOUR doctor? Asked the doctor how much worse things have gotten healthwise in the last six months to a year? Where you are headed healthwise if things don't change a lot in the near future? If, as i suspect, you are getting worse at a fast rate (or even a medium rate!), then you need to do some serious thinking. What would happen to her if you suddenly collapsed or died (God forbid!)? Have you considered/planned for what will happen to her if you suddenly die? Maybe you could look at those plans and work something out so that she could live at least part time with someone else. I just know that you have not felt good in a long, long, long time. Things just seem to be getting worse with you, esp healthwise. So something has to give or esle I am afraid I will come to the board one day to find a post that says you died. I do not ever want to learn that!!!!! I don't have any suggestions other than first talking to your doctor and then maybe talking to social services. Do you qualify for disability or SSI? If so maybe they can help you find a situation that would be good for difficult child and provide the help and break that YOU need. Her rages are a type of abuse of you. Call a domestic violence center and ask them to help. Make an appointment and go ask them about how to handle this - the rages, etc... are a very nasty form of abuse. Just because it is your child doesn't mean you are not abused. The dv center may have suggestions to help you with the stress and abuse that are making your helath problems much worse. I am so sorry you are in such an awful situation and that it is taking a huge toll on your health. Before you say that this or that won't work, think hard about what having you collapse from the incredible stress of difficult child's tirades and behavior will do to difficult child in the long run? She may feel a lot of guilt over this later and it could take a huge toll on her. Going to the doctor, social services, the dv center, etc... for some help NOW might mean you get some real help and maybe you can prevent that. {{{{{gentle hugs}}}}} [/QUOTE]
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