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<blockquote data-quote="flutterby" data-source="post: 410522" data-attributes="member: 7083"><p>Thank you, ladies, for the support.</p><p></p><p>I had CPS involved starting in April last year after she was hospitalized. It took them a little while to really see her in action, but they did and there really isn't anything they can do. She's not bad enough to warrant residential or anything else. They worked with me to try to find some resources, and attended IEP meetings with me, but there really wasn't much they could do. Our caseworker was great and was frustrated that she couldn't do more. They closed the case in October/November mainly because the SD was getting confused and wanting to deal with them and not me, and they didn't want the SD running roughshod over me. (Too late.) I did call her yesterday and leave a message, but I really don't know what else can be done.</p><p></p><p>Our fiscal year for funding via MR/daughter (for PCA's and such) starts again Saturday, and we are going to put in a request for provider - looking for a very specific provider for difficult child. Even our support person at MR/daughter has been shocked and stumped by difficult child. therapist says difficult child is the worst case she's had and she's been in practice for more than 30 years. </p><p></p><p>She asked me to help her fill out an application last night. After, I talked to her and said, point blank, "this needs to stop". We ended up talking for about 3 hours. Improvement, but I've been down this road before. Her memory is short.</p><p></p><p>Her only concern regarding my health is...who is going to take care of me if mom dies. Emotional immaturity. Selfishness. Little of both. Lot of both. I don't know anymore.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterby, post: 410522, member: 7083"] Thank you, ladies, for the support. I had CPS involved starting in April last year after she was hospitalized. It took them a little while to really see her in action, but they did and there really isn't anything they can do. She's not bad enough to warrant residential or anything else. They worked with me to try to find some resources, and attended IEP meetings with me, but there really wasn't much they could do. Our caseworker was great and was frustrated that she couldn't do more. They closed the case in October/November mainly because the SD was getting confused and wanting to deal with them and not me, and they didn't want the SD running roughshod over me. (Too late.) I did call her yesterday and leave a message, but I really don't know what else can be done. Our fiscal year for funding via MR/daughter (for PCA's and such) starts again Saturday, and we are going to put in a request for provider - looking for a very specific provider for difficult child. Even our support person at MR/daughter has been shocked and stumped by difficult child. therapist says difficult child is the worst case she's had and she's been in practice for more than 30 years. She asked me to help her fill out an application last night. After, I talked to her and said, point blank, "this needs to stop". We ended up talking for about 3 hours. Improvement, but I've been down this road before. Her memory is short. Her only concern regarding my health is...who is going to take care of me if mom dies. Emotional immaturity. Selfishness. Little of both. Lot of both. I don't know anymore. [/QUOTE]
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