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<blockquote data-quote="2daughters" data-source="post: 269792" data-attributes="member: 7134"><p>Sorry for bringing this one up again. I need to get this off my chest or I'll never be able to sleep.</p><p></p><p>My neighbors are at it yet again. Both my dogs were on their run outside and my difficult child was playing with them. My youngest lab got off his run and my daughter went hysterical. She remembered the threats of that broad next door, and she was genuinely terrified.</p><p></p><p>Now, I'm terrified for not just both my dogs lives, but my daughters life AND my life. That girl next door's husband was home today and he threatened to kill both dogs and myself, and he issued a threat to my daughter. He tried to goad me into a fist fight, and when that didn't work he started hurling every obscenity he could at me to the point of actually calling me names. My dog might have got off his run but he didn't manage to get out of the yard at all. This criminal (he's got a record miles long; got that info from the police themselves) started throwing things at myself, my daughter and my dog. I called the police, and gave my statement when they arrived. When I'd finished they went next door and arrested him and put him in jail for a couple hours for issuing threats.</p><p></p><p>He came home while I was hiding at my other neighbor's house, and didn't realize that he was actually trying to hide in some shrubbery in the back of his yard, watching my daughter's every move and mine as well. When he saw that I was going to be escorted home by the other neighbors, he promptly got into his vehicle and started driving around my place (he drove around it approximately 8-10 times according to the other neighbors that saw him). I called my husband up (who was a day's drive away from me) to tell him what's going on and to beg him to do something to get home.</p><p></p><p>I did report that to the police because to me that constant circling of my place is stalking (which is believed by the neighbors he was doing because I moved MY vehicle so that I could sneak out and away without having them being able to watch me). The police told me that it's not considered stalking and explained to me that the neighbors are entitled to circle my place as much as they want because they're neighbors (not a very good excuse but I'm leaving it as that for the time being).</p><p></p><p>I've had my other neighbors "visiting" and helping me to pack necessities for all of us until my husband can get home in a couple days and we can finish moving the rest of the necessities and get other utilities hooked up. I've got my biggest dog constantly at my side for protection because I just don't trust those psychopaths. There's a no direct/in direct contact order on him, but that won't stop him. </p><p></p><p>My daughter, dogs and myself are now going into hiding. Besides the police, only the other neighbors that have been here with my daughter and I through this whole ordeal know where we're going to be. I'm not sure when I'll be able to come back to this house without someone with me to ensure our safety, but I know I'll have to come back when Crown Counsel has the court date set (yup, there's quite a few charges against him now because he also tried to attack the police officer while he was being arrested).</p><p></p><p>This feels an awful lot like the battered wife syndrome especially because I'm going to be leaving in the dead of night to go to my safe place. I also know that the "husband" is capable of pretty much anything and am taking his death threats seriously because he's been bragging about punching his mother in law in the face because she "wouldn't shut up." Nice guy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2daughters, post: 269792, member: 7134"] Sorry for bringing this one up again. I need to get this off my chest or I'll never be able to sleep. My neighbors are at it yet again. Both my dogs were on their run outside and my difficult child was playing with them. My youngest lab got off his run and my daughter went hysterical. She remembered the threats of that broad next door, and she was genuinely terrified. Now, I'm terrified for not just both my dogs lives, but my daughters life AND my life. That girl next door's husband was home today and he threatened to kill both dogs and myself, and he issued a threat to my daughter. He tried to goad me into a fist fight, and when that didn't work he started hurling every obscenity he could at me to the point of actually calling me names. My dog might have got off his run but he didn't manage to get out of the yard at all. This criminal (he's got a record miles long; got that info from the police themselves) started throwing things at myself, my daughter and my dog. I called the police, and gave my statement when they arrived. When I'd finished they went next door and arrested him and put him in jail for a couple hours for issuing threats. He came home while I was hiding at my other neighbor's house, and didn't realize that he was actually trying to hide in some shrubbery in the back of his yard, watching my daughter's every move and mine as well. When he saw that I was going to be escorted home by the other neighbors, he promptly got into his vehicle and started driving around my place (he drove around it approximately 8-10 times according to the other neighbors that saw him). I called my husband up (who was a day's drive away from me) to tell him what's going on and to beg him to do something to get home. I did report that to the police because to me that constant circling of my place is stalking (which is believed by the neighbors he was doing because I moved MY vehicle so that I could sneak out and away without having them being able to watch me). The police told me that it's not considered stalking and explained to me that the neighbors are entitled to circle my place as much as they want because they're neighbors (not a very good excuse but I'm leaving it as that for the time being). I've had my other neighbors "visiting" and helping me to pack necessities for all of us until my husband can get home in a couple days and we can finish moving the rest of the necessities and get other utilities hooked up. I've got my biggest dog constantly at my side for protection because I just don't trust those psychopaths. There's a no direct/in direct contact order on him, but that won't stop him. My daughter, dogs and myself are now going into hiding. Besides the police, only the other neighbors that have been here with my daughter and I through this whole ordeal know where we're going to be. I'm not sure when I'll be able to come back to this house without someone with me to ensure our safety, but I know I'll have to come back when Crown Counsel has the court date set (yup, there's quite a few charges against him now because he also tried to attack the police officer while he was being arrested). This feels an awful lot like the battered wife syndrome especially because I'm going to be leaving in the dead of night to go to my safe place. I also know that the "husband" is capable of pretty much anything and am taking his death threats seriously because he's been bragging about punching his mother in law in the face because she "wouldn't shut up." Nice guy. [/QUOTE]
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