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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 485503" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>That is exactly what I was thinking... That is why I said she seems so scary. I think hound has a point. Especially if SHE sees you talking to the parent/grandparent. She will know you are on to her, that the adults are talking and even if the do nothing, she will have it in her that her being so sneaky is obvious. You can fudge too.... say the police and library have known your children for years and they have never been in trouble and they know they are good kids. That they are suspecting she is not telling the truth and much like the boy who cried wolf, she could really be ignored if she was in true need at some point. Plus, she is not going to be welcome anywhere because everyone is tired of her hurting kids' feelings and ruining their fun times. I 'd make it clear in front of her that you will have no problem pressing charges against her if she makes false allegations or touches either of your kids. She doesn't have to know that the cop is a jerk and it maybe would go nowhere!</p><p></p><p>Sad thing is she probably doesn't have the skills to do better, but you still have to be mom first, not social worker, as you are doing. Makes me crazy if she needs that level of supervision at school then that means she needs it in the community. Even more reason to report her family, not to cause trouble but to help them get home services. I mean if a pca was with her maybe she could learn some social skills out in the community....far far away from your boys preferably! If not, auntie Dee is coming to give her dad and little miss herself a clue...only a couple hours, I can do it..!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 485503, member: 12886"] That is exactly what I was thinking... That is why I said she seems so scary. I think hound has a point. Especially if SHE sees you talking to the parent/grandparent. She will know you are on to her, that the adults are talking and even if the do nothing, she will have it in her that her being so sneaky is obvious. You can fudge too.... say the police and library have known your children for years and they have never been in trouble and they know they are good kids. That they are suspecting she is not telling the truth and much like the boy who cried wolf, she could really be ignored if she was in true need at some point. Plus, she is not going to be welcome anywhere because everyone is tired of her hurting kids' feelings and ruining their fun times. I 'd make it clear in front of her that you will have no problem pressing charges against her if she makes false allegations or touches either of your kids. She doesn't have to know that the cop is a jerk and it maybe would go nowhere! Sad thing is she probably doesn't have the skills to do better, but you still have to be mom first, not social worker, as you are doing. Makes me crazy if she needs that level of supervision at school then that means she needs it in the community. Even more reason to report her family, not to cause trouble but to help them get home services. I mean if a pca was with her maybe she could learn some social skills out in the community....far far away from your boys preferably! If not, auntie Dee is coming to give her dad and little miss herself a clue...only a couple hours, I can do it..! [/QUOTE]
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