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New and Loving you all.. asking for help 18 runaway daughter..
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 238682" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'd let her come home, but not the boyfriend. Maybe the puppy <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /> BUT...she would come home alone and on the condition that she go into treatment first and stay clean and sober and get a job. There is no way in hello I would let her come home with the boyfriend, or without the understanding that she would be coming home to get help and I'd expect her to do it or she'd be gone again. She can do just as many dangerous things in your house as she is doing out of the house and she won't turn her life around by keeping bad company and not having to follow strict rules. in my opinion her boyfriend will just make her continue down her path, which she may not be ready to give up anyway. That has to be her decision, young or not. Nobody can do it for her. Been there/tried it all. My daughter quit when she was good and ready and not a day before that. But I wouldn't help her degenerate by making it easy for her to snort or shoot up. You may want to join Narc-Anon. They are WONDERFUL!</p><p>I'm sorry you're going through this. It's so hard, I know.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 238682, member: 1550"] I'd let her come home, but not the boyfriend. Maybe the puppy ;) BUT...she would come home alone and on the condition that she go into treatment first and stay clean and sober and get a job. There is no way in hello I would let her come home with the boyfriend, or without the understanding that she would be coming home to get help and I'd expect her to do it or she'd be gone again. She can do just as many dangerous things in your house as she is doing out of the house and she won't turn her life around by keeping bad company and not having to follow strict rules. in my opinion her boyfriend will just make her continue down her path, which she may not be ready to give up anyway. That has to be her decision, young or not. Nobody can do it for her. Been there/tried it all. My daughter quit when she was good and ready and not a day before that. But I wouldn't help her degenerate by making it easy for her to snort or shoot up. You may want to join Narc-Anon. They are WONDERFUL! I'm sorry you're going through this. It's so hard, I know. [/QUOTE]
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